You are way to impatient. Sadly our world teaches us how to be impatient then patient. Everything gets more high tech just to keep us entertained and make us feel entitled. Sometimes its better to immerse yourself into a story to truly enjoy. Sometimes slow is the better course. Also being slower than the other novel games is a welcomed change. The status quo is what is really boring. At least that is how I see it.
Impatient? yes. especially when a game has 10 to 11 updates and yet the MC has failed to progress much if at all. I DO immerse myself in the game. When it is possible, I use MY name for the MC (in order to feel "closer" to the action), I play each scene and do not skip dialogue, and do my best to pay ATTENTION to the dialogue.
So you may understand where I am coming from, I am a 59 year old disabled veteran. I have - over the past 8 years - played and reviewed adult/porn games from Japan and here in the US. Normally, I do not mind a slow burn within a game, and I have played plenty where it takes nearly 8 updates before you even see the LI nude or even get to TOUCH her body, much less have sex with her. But THIS story is bordering on the ridiculous with its MC development and progression. The fact that after 10 to 11 the girls have shown a fair amount of character progression and have included a fair amount of content change from their initial behavior towards the MC, yet He STILL waffles between wanting them and "resisting" them is pulling this game downward from a pretty decent game to the level of a scam just to milk money from the developer's patreons. Not saying that this is what he/she is doing, but it sure FEELS that way.
And yes, As I mentioned in another post here, I have played games with fairly slow burn, but there is a right way, and a wrong way, to use that slow burn. I have no problem with slow burn if the MC shows a decent amount of progression within the game. There has been little to none with the MC in this game, and it is getting both annoying and boring.
The other thing I have a problem with is how he reacts (the MC) to Betty's manipulation of Lilith. At one point, I liked her as a character, but it pissed me off that the MC did not condemn her for her abusive - and yes, regardless of "her reasoning" it was abusive - treatment of a sister she is supposed to love. And the specious reasoning she uses is bullshit. at least from my point of view. Yes, I know, this is a porn game and not real life. But when you immerse yourself in a game, you put your own values into the game. Had this been real life, I would have back-handed her and told her to never come back until she changed and apologized to her sister.