3 - srsly? you jealous of an inanimate sex toy half the size of MC's dick?

Girls get horny too and some of them like to use toys. The Voodoo scene was kinda wack tho, I agree but I think she is just being difficult. She wants to but doesnt want to.
You do realize cherry popping is a longstanding kink. Not to mention that while using a dildo means nothing to many women, and man there are many men, and women that, be it from a romantic, or a sexual stand point feel that real sex should come first. Your use of the word "jealous" comes of to me more as name calling then anything else.
3) speaking about dildos, I don't really have any problem with that but I prefer it when girls first fuck MC and then use dildos if they really have to. So tamara's scene was a disappointment for me.
That is not jealousy but a preference.
It wouldn't have made any difference to her, right? It is MC who is getting the sensation of fucking Tamara but Tamara is only fucking and feeling that dildo.
While I can understand where they were trying to go with the scene logically I can see it as being unfulfilling, and frustrating. Similar to using a high quality advanced sex toy in a since. As he was "feeling" her but sex is so much more the just what you feel with your little buddy. Yeah it would be enough to make you cum, but most of the physiological, and emotional connection would be lost
Hailey while helping the MC enjoy it would have also made the MC's mined focus and associate the pleasure with her.
MY ultimate thoughts on the scene is that she seams to have some sort of disconnect. She must have wanted to have sex with the MC as there was no need to have him involved otherwise, and either it was her first time or at least her first time with a dildo as large. The size also was probably to mimic the MC.
Also with her falling off when he came she may have been feeling him not the toy. unless it was just really lucky timing.
My guess is she wanted to control her first time, but also have it with the MC. If she did it directly with the MC there is no way he would just sit there passively, and she would also be affected by his incubus powers.
As it was a reward for her mission it could be that Hailey was also keeping her from directly having sex with the MC first. just a thought.
Her loyalty lie for the more powerfull, that's all it's shows ( for me at least), even if i can understand your point of view.
She fear his father so she stay with him and go with everything he say because him and Nari are more powerfull than her. (no problem with that,it's make perfectly sens)
But the way she accept it so easily and let mc to die without trying much to persuade them only show how little she care about him and how much she fear her father.
I dont say that it would have changed anything, but if she really tried to protect mc, it would have shown that she at least really care for him, but she only timidly protested and stepped out immediatly when Nari asked her to move. Even when she think that mc had a chance against Nari she still did nothing at all and let the other succubus help Nari to kill mc.
Until Mc become stronger than Axius she have no reason to changing side , she will stay with her father and try to kill mc if Axius give her the order.
But they are bigger threat than Axius so not sure that i would trust Irena to have mc back in the futur if she already left him to die against her father minion.
She is scared of him, and he is abusive. While yes I don't think the MC should trust his back to her. I can also see her possibly being there for the MC after removing the threat of her father.
Like the story of elephant and the rope. The father will have been an ever-present abusive controlling factor in her life. if she can overcome that either by herself or with the MC's help. Yes she cold fall under the next controlling person, or she could finally live for herself. She also has little reason to chose the MC over her father. If they were closer she may just go against him only time will tell. That is part of the problem with enemy LI's at times if the relationship is not far enough. To keep character there will be times were they will either try to harm the MC or just let it happen.