That, and thinking you've swayed a girl to turn a blind eye to your harem, then to learn she's strong-willed and you fooled yourself.
I'm having fun with the helicopter mothers. They get freaky, too, and stop bothering me.
I wanted to add a funny quirk I just noticed. I was arriving at a party, when I was notified (interrupted) about a cake incident in the kitchen. After I coaxed the eater to quit, I was then offered the chance to Mingle With the Guests. Odd, but I did get to mingle with the kitchen staff instead.