i don't disagree with what you wrote, but summer's gone takes half a year to get updated, 3 chapters so far and we haven't even seen a blowjob scene. I mean do we have to wait 2-3 years for a sex scene?
I hope you understand when i say this game is in a league of its own when it comes to blueballin'.
Blue balling = Everything between two characters who are in a romantic relationship points to sex.
But the dev creates an artificial reason (Phone ringing, a person coming in, person X saying we better wait even though it is contradicting her character development at this point, etc.) to deny/delay sexual content.
What you are describing as blue balling here is normal relationship build-up, no artificial reasons. Just people getting to know each other.
And seriously, read the unskippable warning at the beginning of the game. Otherwise, the time you wasted on this game is on you.