- Jan 24, 2022
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I like the idea. Is there any chance of them getting caught up there with their pants down?Obviously not having sex is always an option. I meant that having sex with each other was the only option for having sex. I have a friend who spent a year in jail who identifies as straight, but did sexual things with men in jail because it was that or nothing. Being in jail is a mind numbing, soul crushing experience. Sexuality is one of the few ways to experience your humanity in a dehumanizing environment.
Remember that everyone has the right to identify however they want. Sexual orientation is a spectrum, and I agree that "straight" people are somewhere in the middle if they do sexual things with each other. My point wasn't that they ARE straight despite doing these things, but that they identify as straight despite doing these things. They wouldn't have done sexual things with each other if they had been able to have sex with women. Sexual experimentation between same-sex friends who have sex exclusively with the opposite sex when they grow up isn't unusual. Having gone to a religious school that didn't teach sex ed, I learned about sex from my friends. It didn't cross the line from talking to doing for me, but I have male friends who masturbated with their male friends and then dated women exclusively. Same-sex experimentation was a product of lust and curiosity, not love.