I see Ashley as a free spirit, not a hoe, with her own expectations for her life. While your father a man whose for structure, routine, and discipline. Putting those two in the same room over time is only going to cause bitterness, Her way of raising your sister was way different than that of your strict father so she left knowing that your father was relentless she cut all ties. (It's just that simple). As for being pissed at your mother you can be both angry and yet be civil at the same time. Besides how many answers will you get if you are yelling and screaming. The game allows you to be aloof or a horndog so it's all in how you want to play it.