Welcome to the cultured club dude!
LMAO, bud, there is nothing 'psychological', it has already been explained several times by Administrator that this is all her doing, she's the one that's giving Inoda convenient knowledge and also erasing all the 'suspicion' of Kirito every night, while also making him unable to recall what he sees in the Blog (Fujino changed it back to the real world for convenience but for the longest time it was just part of the Rec. Room too).
Granted, now that I think of it, is hella hilarious how all these key points to the plot that explain a lot of what's going on can be COMPLETELY missed in an entire playthrough just by not going to the left building and talking with Administrator every single night, it's completely optional, you can leave the room every time without having talked to her despite how much she explains and gives context/teasers regarding the plot and what's about to happen XP