AlterInfernalAllius
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I mean, is gonna be a pointless arguments anyway because we clearly have different opinions on it and what "NTR" should actually be, but I wanna point out I wasn't the one against the Kirito-doesn't-know-anything Ending, is the other guy you may wanna tag for that particular last bit XDNot to start another debate about "What NTR is", but, the general most direct understood meaning of Netorare is that a Significant Other is "Stolen". The theme has very VERY little to do with the focus being on the common, basic & boring AF aesthetic such as willing cuckoldry/ "sharing"/ "swinging"/ "swapping" (or just flat-out cheating is exposed & out in the open from the second it happens -- this is boring as fuck to me) of partners. There is always a cuck, I full on acknowledge that, but the direct fetish for the NTR kink is that the SO is "Stolen" from their lover through slow & gradual corruption either through blackmail or cheating.
That's why most Doujins & games you probably have seen tagged as NTR have an unwitting cuck. The cuck finding out about the infidelity is usually left for the final moments of the doujin/ game as a dramatic ending factor. (Keyword there is "Usually").
By the way, the one being "Stolen" from their "Lover" can also just be "Love Interests" as in they're just friends but get along well and that clearly one of or both actually like each other but they don't take the risk out of fear etc. So the person being "Stolen" doesn't necessarily have to be in a relationship with the person being cucked.'
Hope that clears up some form of misunderstanding.
edit: Also, I don't know why or where you got the idea from where you think NTR's focus for the kink is a "Feeling of Loss", when that has nothing to do with NTR at all. It's just a SO being "Stolen" from a cuck, whether the cuck finds out about it or not is almost irrelevant. I say almost irrelevant because it depends on what the writer wants to portray the cucked MC as.