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I have never heard this as a derogatory term. I have been writing futa for over 10 years, been a mod at Futanari Palace for 7 years and an admin for over a year. If certain groups of people want to consider it derogatory for whatever reason, fine, but for over a decade, this is a first for me.
I also don't remember seeing it as such before. As far as i know "shemale" is the one that can be considered derogatory.
 
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jestertlw

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I have never heard this as a derogatory term. I have been writing futa for over 10 years, been a mod at Futanari Palace for 7 years and an admin for over a year. If certain groups of people want to consider it derogatory for whatever reason, fine, but for over a decade, this is a first for me.
Do you have a good sample size of intersex individuals who interact at the Futanari Palace? A problem many of us have (including myself) with wondering if a word is derogatory or a slur is that we are looking at a word from outside the experiences of people to which that word is attached.

We can find many examples used in recent history for a lot of terms (not just one for porn genres) where this is the case. The quickest is the naming of sports mascots from slurs for indigenous people.
 

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Do you have a good sample size of intersex individuals who interact at the Futanari Palace? A problem many of us have (including myself) with wondering if a word is derogatory or a slur is that we are looking at a word from outside the experiences of people to which that word is attached.

We can find many examples used in recent history for a lot of terms (not just one for porn genres) where this is the case. The quickest is the naming of sports mascots from slurs for indigenous people.
At one time, we did. However, to be fair, FP has faded over the years. However, we have always had an open, warm and accepting environment for everyone. I have personally handled bigots before and dealt with them accordingly. At the same time, I have also seen people come in over the years and start flame wars because their personal definitions and terms of the fetish were not enforced. That is the challenge: sorting out legitimately bigoted terminology from current terms that are being interpreted by individuals as derogatory. On a personal note, I have known several trans people who do not have a problem with the term. So, from my own experiences, yes, I can say this is the first time I have ever heard of the term being considered by anyone as derogatory. At the same time, I am not going to say my own personal experiences are the end-all, be-all either. Were I trans*, the only thing I would hate to be called is "late for dinner." XD

EDIT: I do not want to get too far down this rabbit hole because it will derail the thread.

*Despite what I write, I consider myself straight. I write futa because I cannot stand seeing another dude in porn. The genitalia does not matter to me, the body form does. Again, that is me.
 

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Dickgirl is conidered a derogatory term, Futa Sans Pussy is probably the more easier one to specify.
I am aware of that term, however it just sounds stupid to me. I don't understand how dickgirl is derogatory as it is legitimately what they are. A girl with a dick.
Futa dont need vagina because they have dominanting role, for submisive role ordinary girls are more suitable.
Then it isn't exactly a futa. Again, this is what I recall of the Japanese use of the term, and why so many users on this site get upset at the tag.
Also found a zero games there protagonist natural girl, and many futa girls want to fuck her, found only manga on this theme
What? You mean a game with a girl you play as where chicks want to bang you? I believe I found one that had a version where you lay as a guy or one where you are the girl. Never played it though so it could be more than just that.
that's a mouthful
Yes, they usually have a large sack.
 

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Is there going to be another hotfix for the chastity cage, because upgrading it wont actually increase the levels of the upgrades or make them stick?
 
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Why do I find more instances of the word "search" when I search for the word "save" and your name? Searchception? :illuminati:
Might have something to do with the fact that people cannot be bothered to find answers with it and i just keep telling people to use it.

I also edited the message because i remembered that it has actually been a while since i've given out actual information concerning how to update the game or how to access your savefiles, then again i did make a small quide on how to edit your save files regarding selkie and in that i tell where the savefiles are located (atleast in windows).
 

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I am aware of that term, however it just sounds stupid to me. I don't understand how dickgirl is derogatory as it is legitimately what they are. A girl with a dick.
I also don't remember seeing it as such before. As far as i know "shemale" is the one that can be considered derogatory.
I have never heard this as a derogatory term. I have been writing futa for over 10 years, been a mod at Futanari Palace for 7 years and an admin for over a year. If certain groups of people want to consider it derogatory for whatever reason, fine, but for over a decade, this is a first for me.
I've been told it's due to it being derogatory to other groups, similar to how using random slurs towards others can still cause discomfort due to association of the malice behind the word's origin.

I have personally handled bigots before and dealt with them accordingly. At the same time, I have also seen people come in over the years and start flame wars because their personal definitions and terms of the fetish were not enforced. That is the challenge: sorting out legitimately bigoted terminology from current terms that are being interpreted by individuals as derogatory. On a personal note, I have known several trans people who do not have a problem with the term. So, from my own experiences, yes, I can say this is the first time I have ever heard of the term being considered by anyone as derogatory. At the same time, I am not going to say my own personal experiences are the end-all, be-all either. Were I trans*, the only thing I would hate to be called is "late for dinner." XD

EDIT: I do not want to get too far down this rabbit hole because it will derail the thread.
Knowing different folks can lead to different perspectives, some have a more negative experience with the term typically due to a catch-all use.
But yeah, typically it's the less hassle choice to just say 'futa' to describe fictional non-transitioned charas like the ones in ToA and just assume balls and vag are like weapon attachments :p
I do appreciate the detail you went into, with your response, since it shows a depth to your understanding and view on the matter (y)

But, tbf, you have nothing on the ol' reliable response to convos like these.
My god you are stupid.


Is it a boy? is it a girl? Doesn't matter, it's got a penis.
- Hiro's thoughts before entering combat, as he puts on his buttplug and ball-gag to remain a virgin.
 

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My god you are stupid.
Technically he just sent the message. Although I agree that it's a silly thing to consider a slur.
Might have something to do with the fact that people cannot be bothered to find answers with it and i just keep telling people to use it.

I also edited the message because i remembered that it has actually been a while since i've given out actual information concerning how to update the game or how to access your savefiles, then again i did make a small quide on how to edit your save files regarding selkie and in that i tell where the savefiles are located (atleast in windows).
I usually just ignore lazy and stupid people. A little bit of effort goes a long way.
I've been told it's due to it being derogatory to other groups, similar to how using random slurs towards others can still cause discomfort due to association of the malice behind the word's origin.


Knowing different folks can lead to different perspectives, some have a more negative experience with the term typically due to a catch-all use.
But yeah, typically it's the less hassle choice to just say 'futa' to describe fictional non-transitioned charas like the ones in ToA and just assume balls and vag are like weapon attachments :p
I do appreciate the detail you went into, with your response, since it shows a depth to your understanding and view on the matter (y)

But, tbf, you have nothing on the ol' reliable response to convos like these.





- Hiro's thoughts before entering combat, as he puts on his buttplug and ball-gag to remain a virgin.
I use futa at times, but sometimes I do mean a girl with balls specifically and futa doesn't cut it according to some, so I will just keep using it where appropriate. However, considering people keep finding new things to be offended by, and in an attempt to stop any potential wars over the subject, I will just state here that it is not being used to disrespect someone.
 
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