I dont have a guide but i have a lifehack
Scroll back up, click on any piece of text at the beginning and casually press tab on the page when you finished reading it. If it has a gem on it, it will scroll directly to it, if not, you will know
In the original the story left with you still in female form with Elara, hunting Snib. That was the good end.
I assume TGP recollared is a restart using new tech. Already stated the next part of the story past the original will take us to new places and situations. Maybe Alaric gets remade male, maybe Elara and Elise become Snib broodmares again, maybe the girls form a lesbian marriage and hunt gobbos, should be fun finding out.
I don't like it either but I find Aphrodite's games are good enough that it's worth it. Even though it's mentioned a lot you can just skip over that text, I'd say 70% of content so far makes sense if you imagine it's a female warrior who's been captured rather than a man changed into a woman. The gender swap happens early on and only once, there's no swapping back and forth.