I recommend playing good games, of talented and focused authors who know their way around creating eroge on a proper engine. There are plenty of them to be found on this very site, or elsewhere.
More specifically, in regards to the comment you've quoted, I recommend not wasting time on games that are caught between two stools because the author couldn't make up their mind of what they wanted to do with it. As I said, it's painful to go through, at least it was for me.
It's like your grandma was trying to get you aroused by telling you a smut story through a parental control filter, failing at it, and trying to make up for it with dubious jokes.