Hey, that wasn't what i wanted to express, but it is a good counter,
what I was talking about if "junior Callister" has to take the reigns of the Templars, then he has to trascend his resent, (Although kissing Kaijas ass isn't necesarly a bad thing for me)
and not questioning that Trust is the base of every relationship ! just saying that understanding is the key to move on and overcome the grief fast.
And Kaija implies that she had a crush on MC since ever since, there is nothing wrong with being proud and not wanting a relship with her,