Caught up on the current version, think knowing about Finn stopped me caring too much about her since It felt kind of pointless to do so but I did end up liking her enough to still be bummed out. Honestly though I feel like there's something off about her death, not just that It's way to convenient to blame the Templars, It was almost certainly the 3rd party but just how quick It seemed and I'm just not a fan of off screen deaths in general.
For the main and I guess only real LI's I can't say there's one I am sold on completely, went Kaija's love path since I expected her to be way worse after reading this thread, I didn't so much trust Kaija as I did Jessica and the whole girls just know the stuff thing. Jessica is hands down the best girl in this imo, a damn tragedy.
Elea I do like since she seems the most normal at the moment, though she is interested in myths and legends so will likely be dragged into it somehow.
Fiona Is the closest to no.1 out of the 4 real LI's largely because she is a redhead and Irish, redhead supremacy!. Also has a doggo for bonus points.
Medb or "Mass Effect Data Base" as I started to read her name since I don't know how to pronounce it, Is fine but again the whole ending of the last part felt off to me and she may not be super trustworthy yet.
And as already said, Jessica is best girl hands down, no question. People are talking about going scorched earth for Finn, I however, will go scorched earth on anyone who hurts Jessica.
Jessica is great and I'm glad there isn't an incest path. That would be weird in this game, and I wouldn't take it anyway. Having her as your unshakable best friend is great.
Finn was my #1 in this game, even though she was never meant to be a real Li - I would have just been with her, even if she didn't have much content. So far it's the only relationship in this game that feels earned - as opposed to you show up and she falls for you.
Fionna is next out of the big 4 but she's hiding something big - we don't even know her real name. When MC meets her she says "My name is F ...iona" and there are a few times when she looks at MC and does a sad sigh when he's not looking. Also not sure about her age. She keeps talking about dark secrets in her past but she looks like she's mid 20s maybe ... anyway. I like her but she's sus.
Medb I like very much, but she doesn't work for me as a Li. She's like 2000 years old, MC would just be a footnote in her biography. You wouldn't even have much to talk about, she already knows pretty much everything, or she doesn't care enough to learn it. Plus, having my best girl die and then turning around and starting a relationship with her mom feels weird to me.
Elea is just not interesting to me at all. Never found her particularly attractive or interesting. She's a co-worker who is good to go to lunch with sometimes and that's about it.
Kaija - I could absolutely never trust again. She would have to leave the templars behind completely, and get a normal job where she was home every night for me to even think about it. No more late nights, no more "business trips", no more mysterious phone calls - and not even in the civilian /non-combatant part of the Templars.
I have 6 saves, 1 for Fionna, 1 for Medb (even though), 1 for Kaija - but I still burned bridges and that save will probably die in the next update, and then 3 for side girls ... just because I'm unsatisfied with the main girls: Anissa, Kate and Kari.