First up, I think the Templars are a weak organization who have lost their way. In saying that, Templars respected the parents decision not to tell the MC. The secret is on the parents not the Templars. It was the parents decision.The thing that confuses me the most is that Ceo thinks we’re supposed to be neutral about the templars. I mean, yes all we have is Medb’s word and we haven’t even had a long conversation about it with her but why would we be neutral. Given our recent history with the Templars, why would give the benefit of the doubt to people who have been lying to MC about everything for his entire life? Especially when you add in the whole rage/grief thing. I mean I hated the Templars when I met Finn. I’m definitely not neutral.
Kaija did her own thing to the MC by getting close to him, when she didn't have to, so that is on her, not the Templars.
Finn knew she was off to do something the next day and wouldn't tell the MC. The Alfar were up to something. If they attacked the Templars first then that is on them not the Templars.
So I think the Templars are a pretty sad organization, but I not going to blame them for stuff others did. I'm neutral on the Templars as far as the story goes.