Yes, women have fantasies about being "raped". But I've never read one where it's "ugly guy beats the shit out of me, rips my clothes, lasts a minute and a half, then holds a knife to my throat and tells me he knows where I live. Then I limp to find a bystander, they call the cops, I go to the hospital and have a rape kit taken. Later I pick him out of a lineup and testify against him. In the meantime I stop having sex with my boyfriend for months while I go through therapy for my PTSD."
Lots of tags and fetishes are in a very murky area ethically. But, e.g., mind control, doesn't exist IRL which makes for a nice distinction between reality and fantasy. I'd think the distinction between real rape and fantasy rape is that the latter is likely less brutal.
This kinda makes the point I'm driving at:
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