Whatever other people's kinks and fetishes are, I try to take a live and let live approach, even if I'm grossed out by it. If its not my thing, then I just move on. But the other end of that, angerly demanding that games not include something that you don't enjoy, that just frustrates me. Especially when, like I said, its things that I've seen as pretty basic in porn for decades.
If you don't like to eat chicken, then cool, don't eat chicken. No one will care. But going into every restaurant and demanding that they remove chicken from the menu just isn't cool.