Which update do you mean? Which game version did you have before updating?Guys i need help. After updating my game, while playing I noticed my promiscuous female character tried having sex with a married Tom Peeping after having a date with him. But Tom kept on refusing and a pop up message would say "The current situation X and Tom are in doesn't allow to initiate sex." Even after i reset my WW settings and tried tweaking it again, I couldn't seem to make it work. running out of ideas on what to do.
SInce July/August there is a new sexual orientation system in effect which also lead to changes in the ww attraction system. You might need to configure the attractions for most sims once again. Some Sims just lack attraction to females after the update and therefore they don't want sex. Also if you updated the game make sure to have newest WW.
Usually you can change attraction by the ww attraction settings of the sims and CAS.