Another lurker here. You didn't ask for advice, so feel free to ignore it, but here's my .02:It's okay, I understand the desire to be helpful and normally I'd laud you for helping. It's just that it's really not helpful for my peace of mind right now.
If you want the public mod back, the best way is to leave it alone for a while and send some positive emotions my way occasionally. Then I might get some motivation back, round out the WIP version, find another place to host it and direct people there.
Edit: Or make your own mod off of DDM and make a thread for it. /edit
Unfortunately, so far the positive messages I have gotten since have been outweighed by the negatives.
1. People come here to get content. Other than some longstanding members who have formed friendships, anyone helping someone get content is "on their side" and anyone blocking them from getting content is "against them". People don't think super deep and psych profile everyone they interact with, they just react depending on if the person is currently helping or hindering them. Downside: humans aren't very empathetic. Upside: it's not personal.
2. You'd probably have a much easier time getting cooperation from people if it was for a set time period. "Don't post this for 6 months" is a lot more manageable for people than "Don't post this". People can wait and play other games, and honestly, half of them will forget to come back, but waiting indefinitely feels like they're losing something right now.
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