It's a very interesting perspective. When I wrote these questions, I assumed that everyone on this forum is male, my mistake. I should have also provided more details for each option.
Consider this: What would frustrate you more, or what would you prefer?
Which one generates more emotions in you?
(Keep in mind that you are the protagonist of the game and can change the gender of your harem to fit your preferences)
1- A group of three men with Korean idol-like features stealing your harem (they are just three very handsome men, they don't possess powers, but their beauty gives them a certain persuasion over others).
2- The three antagonists of this game stealing your harem.
or
3- An extraterrestrial stole my harem (One night, a small UFO crashes in your backyard, and your girls decide to take care of/raise it as a pet). Note: the extraterrestrial is conscious of everything and can change its size and shape at will.
There is no correct answer; only perspectives.
Well, slightly hard to just genderbend everything without destroying the context.
1) Three KPOP star level girls? Depends. If I'm doing the reverse harem, I don't think I love any single one enough to beat myself up over it. If I DID have one I loved enough, then I would stop having a harem but keep that guy with me. I WILL defend my territory.
2) Gay men have a right to exist but given how I've seen them act, these three specific couples will have to exist THE FUCK AWAY from me (I have friends across preferences, but there is an understanding that I'm out at the first display of affection that isn't just friendly or a kiss). Also, woof/10 for their taste in partners.
3) If my harem wants to stick their dicks inside an alien slime, they can do it after they aren't my harem anymore.
I suppose Number 2 evokes the most emotion from me, and that emotion is Revulsion.