In the begining we know MC is somewhat pushed into a relationship with Deb (but let's drop this, he wanted to be with her, why is irrelevant), and he is monogamous until he meets his wife. Deb did not cheat with his wife UNTIL he went to jail - and never before stated that she has feelings for her. If that is not a stab in the back, I don't know what it is. She could have cheated when MC "was not there for his wife" n ot when he went to jail (seemingly unjustly) Strike 1
I`ll not mention anything that Deb says because I don`t feel like replaying the game now but I believe she said she was at least attracted to the wife since before the cheating when explaining herself, but ignore that, so about the cheating only after he went to jail, for me that makes more sense than before, Deb had an obsession with the Mc (used past tense because the character is kind of all over the place) so while he was available she nor the wife had a reason to relieve their sexual tension any other way, does this excuse the cheating? No, but it still makes the MC a hypocrite for being mad since he cheated on his wife, even though he had no excuse.
Well that is just dandy - Deb states that she loves MC "mostest", but rapes his soul, not to mention the soul of an inocent child. But because she said she loves MC and his wife equally that's ok. In what way a normal person would think torturing MC and mentally abusing Milly is for their own good. But it fits if you just look at Deb a s seriously twisted and unadjusted personality. MC GOT OUT OF JAIL, then searched for his family, so the point of keeping him safe does not work.
Never said it was ok, my argument is mostly against her knowingly doing this stuff to the MC out of malice after he stopped searching or better paused it because the lead had gone cold, and after about a year he didn't get self-destructive and didn't look for the same problems again, then I agree she should have told him or tried to convince the wife to, in the end, we don't really know if she did or not, either way, I was giving a reason for why she did it, not saying it was right, again for me peoples motivations are important, and understanding their circumstances to try and guide them to be better.
Yup I knew you were like this, resorting to swearing and being rude.I'll ignore you on that.
So let's talk about healthy level of weight training for an underage person. Milly is rendered as visibly overtrained, maybe even hormone medicated to reach that level of muscle mass (specially underage when muscle gains are not so prominent as with persons older thatn 20 [22 actually, but who counts])- there is a psychological condition for that, and that even slots in rather correctly within the story where she is severely mentally/psychologically abused by her mother and Deb, messed up with incestuous feelings. Going back to Deb's sin - she could have helped with simple "but he told me he still cares for you", instead colluded with mom to depict MC as an utter monster towards his daughter. No excuse possible for that one - as I think Dev wanted to show Deb as an utter scum in this
The first part was because of how you view her body as monstrous, if you don't feel like that is an unaware insult and being rude yourself, then I don't know, besides that though, i agree that it is unhealthy, but not being physically abused, it was self-inflicted as a result to the mental "abuse", and if you had said it was unhealthy and given the reasons like the ones above, i would actually have agreed to some degree, nowhere is the important thing, i think your view of abuse and mine are very different, abuse to me has to be intentional and/or continual, it has to be something repeated, the mother told her a lie and never gone back on it, and Deb just didn't correct her, she is guilty of omission, in that I agree. Also just remembered that after the mother lied once she didn't need to repeat it because Milly stopped asking about her father and internalized her feelings, these people really need a psychologist.
Let's be frank in this world (outrage &cancel culture #metoo, etc) NO means NO. If Deb did not want Milly's poontang she could have said NO. Even when pussyblocked by MC, it looks like she "helps" him in the same way she helps him with Julie - in order to get in on the action (be inserted into the MC's relationship as a controller/beneficiary of threesomes) However I do agree that MC is depicted with a lack of authority - most of us discuss on this forum that it's a bad thing, on the other hand Deb's authority consists of shopping with girls, wearing dresses, swearing, groping left and right, lying, sexual predator behavior...true picture of authority. But if she wants to help MC re-build his relationship with Milly, she sure shows that in a strange way, degrading MC any chance she gets
I'll answear your last point first, sorry, i don't really see your point, the Mc's relationship with his daugther is not influenced by degrading, his autorathy maybe, but at this point, since he wasn't there since forever, she wouldn't respect his autoraty either way, not until he proves himself, you can't demand respec, and sadly this MC is not someone I would respec either, which is sad and the reason why I almost droped this game multiple times, but again I might not understand your point because I don't care about how people are threated by others, I judge them by how they interact with others and me, and so does Milly, and I'll get meta here because her liking to the Mc has nothing to do with Deb's actions, only ours, also most of the "MC" points, that I don't know if it is about anger or autorythy, never or at least almost never goes up or down when she is present, it is mostly when the Mc is either talking to Julia or Deb alone. I really don't blame her for wanting to get some, and really don't care if she inserts herself as long as it isn't her invading the room while the MC fucks someone and trying to get into that moment, otherwise, I don't see the harm in her getting some.
MC has shown to be "mostly" monogamous person (aside from being with Deb ). So he clearly stated he's "faithful" to Astrid/rejects threesome with Julia and the "Ilsa (Deb) the she wolf of the SS". She immediately punishes/mocks him by stealing a camera to send him video of her NTR-ing Julia. Also when Millie takes MC to her room to bandage him/clean his wounds, Deb is not in the room for some time, she came at the same time as Milly, couple of minutes before MC. He's hurt, his daughter is concerned and tending to his wounds, and Deb is watching porn - does that seem normal, or is it a mocking/insinuating behavior, specially with her targeted comments.
This is a plothole then because my Mc didn't have any commitment to Astrid, they were seing each other but I told her that it was way too complicated at the moment, actually, he says that in both options, one of them being only in a more positive spin of "lets grab a coffe when we can", but I would need to replay, and as I said I'm not feeling like it right now, the rest is your opnion, for me, it wasn't, first NTR for me is when somene is in a relationship, and the MC isn't in one with Julia, second, they were there while the MC was talking to Julia, which by the looks of where the porn image and comments would have been a good 10-20 minutes, I don't know if you watch a lot of lesbian porn but the really good ones take theyr time to get to the oral, but it might have been a 5-6 minutes video as well, either way they were having that conversation before the Mc showed up, and only continued afterwards, and as I said, she knows bruised ribs are nothing, and my Mc acted calm enough that she wouldn't really panic, otherwise i don't know what to say, this was mostly about your emotions then anything, but this is my view on it, i can respect yours.
All in all I appreciate your view and thoughts on the game, and Deb. I even understand some of your stances - but I do not agree with them, as much as you do not agree with mine. And that's ok - we are not US College union/administration that disqualifies anyone who does not think and speak like Hollywood liberal Marxists = you are fully entitled to your opinion. As am I to mine
Agree with the sentiment, don't really understand the "Hollywood liberal Marxists" but either way normally both sides are being idiots about something so I don't really care.
Edit: The only actions that I don't find "that bad" are the cheating and banging people, hell I wouldn't have forbidden her to go for Milly if the dev hadn't forced it, the other information that the Mc doesn't have yet, that one is complicated since I don't care about the cheating, that will be strike one, and that if she actually tells him about it or not deny it if he figures it out somehow, so to my MC she is on the clear until he figures that out.