This is outright bizare honestly, in most of those games, you are not supposed to "identify" with the main character lol. Playing porn games to "identify" with the main character is strange, I mean, in most of these games you are either coercing or outright raping women, you are also fucking half the female population of the town, hell in this concrete game, you are having sex with a woman that was arranged to marry you, while fucking her little sister, her mother and 10 other women around the town. What is there to identify with?
Also, while you are ranting about "men losing interest", you do realise that this game is one of the more popular here right? This thread has almost 5 million views on it and the author of the game has made and is making hella cash off of it right? It's fine to not enjoy the game but don't extrapolate that onto everyone.