Why I deleted my accounts. First of all, for not giving into remorse's and turning back. I knew that if I had everything in place I would come back and confront with the same meltdown, same backlash, same everything. Also, one thing that I learned from here is that no matter how hard you try to make things right, some or most (I don't know) will always see you for the mistakes you made and they will always tag you with your failures rather than anything else. So I think that is a reason why many devs have rebranded, or why they ditched development as a whole.
No offense, but I strongly disagree with that train of thought and reasoning you're presenting.
Why? Well, being under scrutiny, being unfairly judged or treated, complained at, or all sorts of stuff? That's part of life and something everyone experiences at one point, not just a developer.
To cite a real life example, I'm a service business owner and have numerous customers coming to my shop every day.
Generally a lot of customers are good folks. But there are also customers who can be quite a handful and even stressful.
Does that mean I should give up & close down my shop?
No.
At times, it feels like it's literally days where things really don't go my way, but I deal with it, and move past it.
Dealing with hardships and getting past it makes one grow as a character.
And I'm sorry to say this, but me saying this to you bluntly (and yes, this will be a hard pill to swallow)?
You gave up. Or at the very least, made everyone think you gave up for many months (dunno the exact time period tbh) by closing every account while cutting everybody off.
Just because you felt things got difficult for you.
Yes, people being online without having to actually face the other person may say harsher (and even unfair things) things, but can you really blame people for thinking that way after how you handled things?
As well as that taint always going around with you (with people who have known your work long enough) thinking "this dev gave up, shut himself out for months when he found things got tough for him. So what's to stop him from doing that once again next time he encounters another backlash?"
(and yes, it's not just f95zone which harsh words are said, steam has its share too)
Your biggest mistake wasn't even the sandbox (even though I think that itself was a bad move tbh).
It was deleting all the accounts, then up and leaving, instead of managing through it.
At that moment, almost all the trust you've established with people who have been with you from days of Vis came crumbling down like a sandcastle.
And I'm sorry if this isn't what you wanna hear (but as I said in beginning, no offense to you, I'm merely saying it as how I, and many others see it, without sugarcoating anything), but it really needed to be said.