No, in some of the games i talked about the characters are integrated in the hole story like 16 years later you have a familie you live with and interact with but your free to pick who to have a relationship with or not and the characters change depending on what you do so they are fully integrated and is in no way interchangeable since they are all part of the hole main story.That's what I said. You're just okay with the choice between having sex or not having sex with a character. That's not "where you can play MC the way you want to as the player". If I want to have a character beheaded I can't. You can't integrate that into the main story. The main story also doesn't take into account whether you have a big harem or not, the story just stays very small and self contained so that the harem characters are interchangable. That's not "integrated" in my book.
The way wartribe is made is more like a full kinetic story when it comes to main story and main LIs since your forced to follow a set questline with no choices at all or you wont be able to progress the main story and that im really not a fan off.
But your right i do love games where you have a choice in relationships since thats pretty much the main and most importen thing for a AVN and your right you will proberly never see a game with 100% freedom to do what you want since you can always come up with something that cant be in there, like playing a stoneage time period and wanting to go buy a spaceship, which is why things like relationships and kinks/fetishes are the most importen part to make optional without that its pretty much just a kinetic novel.