I guess I'm confused because in my mind sharing is a subset of swinging - one could go to an event, start off by planning on swapping spouses, then if the mood takes them - maybe one side of the couple would prefer to just relax and watch which describes the latter.
yeah it's mostly the involvement of the MC I don't like it from it. For example in
exciting games at the swingers club I like how we can just watch. But then the swinging scene's with the wife's friend I didn't like as I don't recall being able to only watch unless I miss remembering.
It's an odd concept cause somehow I don't mind it as much in
A Life Worth Living not even sure why. It's still my least favorite part of the game but compared to other games I don't mind it as much. Probably because Mary gives input on the couples and who she wants to be with. So we can pick someone she wants and please her and make the swinging all about her enjoyment. As well the scene with the couple outside of the club the MC has the option to just watch.
But in most games swinging is not my cup of tea and for me I find them kind of boring depending on how much focus the MC gets compared to the wife / girlfriend. It's also why I dislike the sharing scene in
Because I love her and prefer the Love path. Because to get the sharing scenes we have to have swap partners and turn it into a swinging scene , where I didn't even want to touch Zoey on that path. I get Claire is also a cuckqueen so it's something she likes so in context of the game it makes sense but still wasn't my cup of tea.
When it comes to sharing for me I like to either watch , make it romantic , or hear / see about it from the wife's point of view also that's also when I don't mind allowing the MC to join in once in awhile too and making it a MMF. I do quite enjoy MMF but depends on the context of the scene and if DP is an option in the scene if I want to turn it into a MMF scene.