What's your sexuality/ sexual orientation?

What do you identify as?

  • Gay

    Votes: 13 2.8%
  • Lesbian

    Votes: 17 3.7%
  • Bisexual

    Votes: 92 20.1%
  • Asexual

    Votes: 15 3.3%
  • Heterosexual (Straight)

    Votes: 320 70.0%

  • Total voters
    457

CeLezte

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I do however enjoy lesbian sex very much, which is kind of odd if you think about it. If you are a straight man, then you should be wanting more gay men to exist and fewer lesbians. Why you ask? Well, more gay men, means less available options for the women you are trying to get the attention of, and you obviously don't want women to be lesbian, because then why would they be interested in you?
*Lauging into her palm as she's reading these lines*
Well, have you tried being with a woman as a woman? :)

Don't worry, there aren't many lesbians out there. *Poor me*

Let me tell you that, it's not an easy task make another woman "happy in bed". Well, unless you use toys on her, but then again that's merely a tool. I sometimes have an imaginary muscle ache when I see a lesbian scene in a porn movie that lasts 40-50 minutes and the girls are still at it. I mean they must really... i mean REALLY like eachothother very much if they can go as long as that.

Women tend to prefer eachother because of looks, smell and because they are such good "BFFs", but they don't really enjoy sex with eachother (statistically speaking).
I write this while considering all the exceptions who think that I'm refering to them.
 

kiteares

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Winning personality?!
Makes a mean breakfast.

I sometimes have an imaginary muscle ache when I see a lesbian scene in a porn movie that lasts 40-50 minutes and the girls are still at it. I mean they must really... i mean REALLY like eachothother very much if they can go as long as that.
Of course...or perhaps it's the regular coffee breaks ;)

Women tend to prefer eachother because of looks, smell and because they are such good "BFFs", but they don't really enjoy sex with eachother (statistically speaking).
I write this while considering all the exceptions who think that I'm refering to them.
From your paragraph above, you've seen some of the same porn as me and so you know that this is just a lie and all women are lesbians just many don't know it yet. But all lesbians are actually willing to have sex with men though many just don't know it yet...
For me often the best part of sex is afterwards. You might not always achieve orgasm, but there is nothing to stop the aftercare/post coitial/cuddling whatever you call it

I thought my sexuality was pretty much settled...not straight forward, but settled. Then I joined an adult site 10 years ago and found out I had sooooo much still to learn about myself, most importantly to re-open my mind. Then I came here and learnt more about myself.
So I guess I would put myself down as confused, but open minded and I definitly won't label myself.
 
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This is actually a tough one, in many ways I'd probably consider myself asexual, as I'm not interested in engaging in actual sexual relations. I'm too much of a selfish person with my time and money to want to get into relationships and I'm not into casual hookups, so in a practical sense I'm asexual. But that doesn't mean I don't have a sex drive or proclivities in regards to what I find attractive.

I would say that on a spectrum of straight to gay, I'd probably fall somewhere around ~80% straight and ~20% gay. I don't find typical guys attractive, they have to be very feminine to stir my loins. Even the vast majority of male-to-female trans in real life don't do it for me. Too many of them are still so obviously masculine in a lot of important areas, mainly facial structure, too muscular arms, too narrow hips, etc. I do however love cute traps and sexy futas in art, when done well. Futas in particular are probably among my favorite fetishes.

Then there are monster girls; another big fetish for me up there with futas. Though it should be noted that I see a clear distinction between monster girls and furries, as typical furries do absolutely nothing for me. I'm mostly only into monster girls with fairly human facial features, there could be horns or fangs and such, as long as the overall face isn't more animal than human. But getting to the point, I'm not sure where this interest puts me either, as monster girls, by definition, aren't human (at least not in their entirety).

Perhaps those interests in futa and monster girls would put me more in the pansexual category that several have brought up. Though as stated previously, masculine guys and most trans folk generally don't do it for me, so I'm clearly not into "all" genders as that name would suggest. Most of my interests are only in fantasy and art too, most of the things I enjoy in art I can't get into at all with their real life counterparts. Some examples would be loli, gore and vore. All of which can be really hot in art when done well, yet downright disgusting in real life.
 
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Arius Zauber

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I would call myself heterosexual, with a slight bias towards bisexuality.
If the guy is pretty feminine then why not have some fun with him.
 

Vanaduke

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How dare you not include my sexual orientation. I consider myself as an Apache Attack Helicopter with a wide variety of kinks and fetishes. I deserve my sexual orientation to be recognized! :mad:
 

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Congrats on making that same joke for the 12th time in this very topic.

Regular George Carlin.
 
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Vanaduke

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Congrats on making that same joke for the 12th time in this very topic.

Regular George Carlin.
Why is it when it's us, it's called an abortion but when it's a chicken, it's an omelette?
 

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Yeah, us Dralasites are asexual, but have been known to try new things with other species...

Here's a being from a sister species showing how this might work...

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Us Dralasites can morph into a few different forms, though, and we are often seen sporting multiple legs...

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We are a pretty low key species though. So far, we mainly just appear in Star Frontiers lore...
(I'm still holding out for an updated treatment of Star Frontiers as a computer RPG).
 

sslelgamal

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It's also missing a "None of your damn business."
Ohhh cooome on, if you do not like it, then don't contribute. It's actually interesting to know what is the major sexual orientation and the main fetishes in game players minds, helps the developers.
 

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I've been into women for pretty much my entire life, up to about 12 years ago I'd of sworn I was a pure lesbian. But I hired a middle aged guy to cook for me, and then let him take over pretty much everything(cooking, cleaning, gardening, being my bodyguard, enforcer, looking after the entirety of my biz when I had a nervous breakdown, holding my hair while I puked my guts up, forcing me to dry up and teaching me that some friends are worse than enemies) over the course of the next 4 years 8 months till I chased him off by not being as loyal to him as he was to me. (so much so he was willing to do jail time for me)

After he left, I discovered something about myself and now all I want is him back in my life.(not for the things he can do, just for his company, although his cooking is fucking amazing.) So I guess I'm Bi now.
 
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Since you chose to necro a thread about sexuality in ancient times (2019) you probably need to actualize it with the current sexuality - sexual orientation of modern times 2022.
as a favor here's the list.

Heterosexual- The attraction to a gender different from their own (commonly used to describe someone who is gender binary [female or male] attracted to the other binary gender).
Homosexual- The attraction to a gender the same as their own (commonly used to describe someone who is gender binary [female or male] attracted to the same binary gender). Sometimess referred to as gay.
Lesbian- Women who are attracted only to other women
Bisexual- When you are attracted to two or more genders. This term is generally used to describe being attracted to men and women, but can apply to being attracted to any two or more genders. Note that you do not have to be equally attracted to each gender.
Pansexual- When you are attracted to all genders and/or do not concern gender when you are attracted towards someone
Bicurious- People who are open to experiment with genders that are not only their own, but do not know if they are open to forming any sort of relationship with multiple genders.
Polysexual- When you are attracted to many genders
Monosexual- Being attracted to only one gender
Allosexual- When you are not asexual (attracted to at least one gender)
Androsexual- Being attracted to masculine gender presentation
Gynosexual- Being attracted to feminine gender presentation
Questioning- People who are debating their own sexuality/gender
Asexual- Not experiencing sexual attraction (note that you can also be aromantic and you do not necessarily have to be asexual and aromantic at the same time). Sometimes the term, ace, is used to describe asexuals.
Demisexual- When you only experience sexual attraction after forming a strong emotional bond first or a romantic bond
Grey Asexual- When you only experience attraction rarely, on a very low scale, or only under certain circumstances
Perioriented- When your sexual and romantic orientation targets the same gender (for example being heteromantic and heterosexual or being biromantic and bisexual)
Varioriented- When your sexual and romantic orientations do not target the same set of genders (for example being heteromantic and bisexual or being homoromantic and pansexual)
Heteronormative- The belief that hetersexuality is the norm and that sex, gender, sexuality, and gender roles all align
Erasure- Ignoring the existance of genders and sexualities in the middle of the spectrum
Cishet- Someone who is both cisgendered and heterosexual. This is sometimes used as a slur.
Polyamorous- An umbrella term referring to people who have or are open to have consensually have relationships with multiple people at the same time
Monoamorous- People who have or or open to have relationships with only one other person at a time. The term, monogamous, is also sometimes used.
Queer- A reclaimed slur for anybody in the LGBT+ community or who do not identify as cisgender and/or hetersexual/heteromantic
Ally- A supporter of the LGBT+ community that does not identify as LGBT+

Just in case you want to add "Genders":

Gender & Sex

Sex- Your assigned gender at birth and/or the gender of your reproductive organs
Gender- Where you feel that you personally fall on the spectrum between male and female. Commonly people identify as male or female, but some fall in the middle or move throughout the spectrum.
Cisgender- When you identify with the gender you were assigned at birth
Transgender- When you identify with a gender different than that you were assigned at birth
Transsexual- When you have had Gender Reassignment Surgery (GRS) to change the sexual organs you were born with to that of a different gender.


*note that you will sometimes see an astrid after Trans (Trans*) which is meant to include both transgendered and transsexual individuals


Male to Female (MtF)- When somebody that is assigned as a male at birth identifies as a female
Female to Male (FtM)- When somebody that is assigned as a female at birth identifies as a male
Binary- The genders at each end of the gender spectrum (male and female)
Non-Binary- An umbrella term for genders that fall somewhere in the middle of the gender spectrum and are neither strictly male or female. This can be used as a gender identification without further explanation. Sometimes the term, genderqueer, is used.
Genderfluid- Moving between genders or having a fluctuating gender identity
Agender- Not identifying with any gender. Sometimes referred to as being genderless or gendervoid
Bigender- Identifying as two genders, commonly (but not exclusively) male and female. Sometimes you feel like both genders at the same time and sometimes you fluctuate.
Polygender- When you identify with multiple genders at once. Sometimes referred to as multigender.
Neutrois- When you identify as agender, neither male nor female, and/or genderless
Gender Apathetic- When you really do not identify nor care about any particular gender. You are fine passing off as whatever and you really do not have an opinion towards your own gender.
Androgyne- This term overlaps a lot between gender identification and presentation. It can be used to describe others and as an identification. This term is used to describe people who are neither male nor female or are both male and female. Basically anyone who does not fit into a binary gender category.
Intergender- Somebody who's gender is somewhere between male and female
Demigender- When you feel as if you are one part a defined gender and one or more parts an undefined gender. Terms can include demigirl, demiboy, demiagender, ect.
Greygender- Somebody with a weak gender identification of themselves
Aporagender- Somebody with a strong gender identification of themselves that is non-binary
Maverique- A non-binary gender that exists outside of the orthodox social bounds of gender
Novigender- A gender that is super complex and impossible to describe in a single term
Designated gender- A gender assigned at birth based on an individuals sex and/or what gender society percieves a person to be
AFAB- Assigned Female At Birth
AMAB- Assigned Male At Birth
Gender roles- Certain behaviors an activities expected/considered acceptable of people in a particular society based upon their designated gender
Gender Presentation- The gender you present yourself to others. This is sometimes referred to as gender expression
Transitioning- The process of using medical means to change your sex
Intersex- A biological difference in sex that is when people are born with genitals, gonads, and/or chromosomes that do not match up exactly with male or female. Intersex individuals can have any romantic/sexual orientation and can have any gender identification. Intersex individuals are about as common as redheads.
Dyadic- Someone who is not intersex and when their gentinals, gonads, and chromosomes can all match into either a male or female category
Trans Woman- Someone who is assigned as a male at birth, but identifies as a woman
Trans Man- Someone who is assigned as a female at birth, but identifies as a man
Trans Feminine- Someone who identifies as feminine, but identifies as neither a man nor a woman. They must also be assigned male at birth.
Trans Masculine- Someone who identifies as masculine, but identifies as neither a man nor a woman. They must also be assigned female at birth.
Social Dysphoria- Discomfort experienced when acting in ways socially different than your gender or being addressed in ways different to your gender
Body Dysphoria- Discomfort experienced because of the difference between gender and your sex, role, or gender expression
Butch- A term used to describe someone who's gender expression is more masculine than feminine. This is commonly used in describing women or lesbians.
Femme (Fem)- A term used to describe someone who's gender expression is more feminine than masculine. This is commonly used in describing women or lesbians.
Binarism- Putting gender strictly into two categories (male and female) and refusing to acknowledge genders outside of male and female.

I'll just go to my medecine cabinet to have some aspirin now brb.
 
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People here are pretty accepting of whatever sexuality and gender you identify as but please tell me you're just memeing. Posts like this are why the LGBTQ+ community gets hated on and it hurts everyone
Agreed, at this point it's just a waste of time trying to learn it, since you apparently offend half the group just for existing if you're a heterosexual man. If this is how it's going to continue, it will end up imploding on itself and just cause internal damage to the movement.

Back on topic. I am Bisexual, but prefer women. So probably leaning more on Lesbian, I guess?
 
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So... a poll about sexuality or sexual orientation that does not include one's own has to be taken as is so that one does not damage "the movement" that claims for better representation?
I don't care what someones sexuality is as long as they don't take action in harming anyone else. The problem with gender identity is that it expands the social construct of traditional gender instead of focusing on removing the idea that gender matters in the first place.

You being cringe and petty hurts you, but when you strawman LGBTQ+ like that it damages the community and my defense of people like you.
 
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Since you chose to necro a thread about sexuality in ancient times (2019) you probably need to actualize it with the current sexuality - sexual orientation of modern times 2022.
For that and to account for the OP's likely intent with this thread, you have to also acknowledge coexisting romantic orientations. While you have mentions of those as examples, you didn't list and define them. And at least some labels have shifting or overlapping meanings, so including all of them would be confusing. But either way, it wouldn't fit into the poll (single question, up to 10 answers).

I suggest putting all that in a nice perception chart like this one:
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Like, in most situations you will just say you like potatoes and won't list specific varieties of it. Or select horror movies as your favorite in a questionnaire even if you'd love to specify how zombies and rubber monsters are pleb tier and your interests lie more in incorporeal entities.

Ideally I'd vote on being biromantic. Because bisexual implies wanting to have sex, and asexual attracts questions about one's presence on a site like this one and doesn't fully answer to "who are you attracted to?". While bisexual may encompass biromantic, I still chose the latter because sex is kind of the first thing one would think of here, confusing people is fun (what the hell are those dozen people doing here?) with technically correct being the best kind of correct, and precising to what degree I'd dislike the idea of having sex isn't that important (or can be mentioned in a post, while the poll lets roughly like-minded people band together).

Irregardless, I bumped this thread with the ulterior motive of having more aces poke their heads out, so for that purpose this poll is detailed enough for me.