I agree with you 100%, that another major retcon would be a mistake. The rectcons so far are already openening up the seams of the story. Making the twins the only ones related and now possibly taking Leia of the list of LIs would transform Wiab in a dime a dozen story about a runaway returning home to his "tenants".I am in a hard position because I don't disagree with you, I can understand your point of view, but I can't forget what I know to engage with it. Maybe to someone who has no knowledge, it will work just fine, maybe even better. For me thought, I can't make sense of it, none of the Leia actions from the pool scene, to Katie comments, to the exchanges between Leia and William, to Monica, to the breakingdowns none of this can work for me if Leia is not a LI with a past with William. If Ocean retcon it, I will be sad, but is his story in the end of day. I just can't say it will be the story that captivated me, because will be a different story It can be even a better one, I don't know, it just can't be the same.
Wiab´s major pull are the action in the shadows, the crime story elements and yes, the relationship of Willi and Leia, where it was more the question of when and which way it happens, than if they finally come together, find a way to include Miru and have some hushed up kids for SG to explore.