Your perspective is alien to me. If the Zanes were truly allies, if they gave a single fuck about William and Leia they wouldn't have done the bidding of the monsters who killed their families. They would have "disappeared" both children. They would have made sure they grew up safe away from all this mess instead of being obedient little bitches and raised the kids as "tributes" or whatever nonsense Ocean invented.
The Zanes are not the good guys. They are despicable, evil, lowlife criminal trash that belong in prison or preferably the morgue.
I don't understand why you keep romanticizing this criminal enterprise. Maybe the porn brain is getting to you.
No, you're just a dumbfuck that can't get over their butthurt. This isn't about mafia. They raised the kids, period, since they were little until they were sixteen. That forms bonds whether you want it to or not. Them taking in the kids and raising them all those years (I assume more than 10) cost them time, money, and effort. They obviously care.
As far as the mob shit goes, the judges and the other families mentioned implies that there is some structure and rules to how this mob operates. We now see someone watching what's going on, some are Feds, cops, and one serious fuckin' bald guy with a gun. The Zanes are not free from oversight. They have rules they have to follow to keep the peace while they're weak.
I am not glorifying anything, so fuck that noise. We're discussing the story. This is the story of the game we're playing. Why the fuck are you playing if you hate the setting, that makes no sense, man? The whole family is fucked up beyond just the criminal stuff. They almost always are in these games.
Dylan, aside from being nominally a boss in a crime family, is a garage mechanic? WTF? He was also emotionally abusive, trying to toughen up the kids in cage matches.
Helen was so bad that the kids feared her, both emotionally and physically abusive, but also maternal and loving.
Uncle Joe is the boss of an Outlaw Motorcycle Club, and beat a rival into a coma.
Fred was growing and dealing drugs.
Scarlett wears those ridiculous hats. Oh, and she steals drugs and drug supplies from the hospital that she's a doctor in.
DUH! They're shitty people and criminals. The writing of the game is also supposed to make you care about them. People are complicated. Nobody is all shit or all good. Everyone has layers like an onion.