That right there has been my thought(s) from the very beginning. This does not seem like a big town/city and yet he was gone from Monica for 8 years. Didn't run into the girls at school/college? Well, not unless it is like the state of Alabama. There are almost as many schools as there are Dollar General Stores.
And, on top of that, he cannot get within 2 miles of the 3 girls. Yeah, I would take the money, sell the house/beach house and move. But not too far...might want to keep seeing/nailing Jolina, Angel, Debbie/Lily (Covertly).