Hi Thank you for your respondEven when she is a hypno girlfriend, Bedroom -> Elsa should still show your relationship status.
And since she is your hypno girlfriend, it should ask you weekly if you want to maintain her.
As a hypno girlfriend the following actions SHOULD be available on her: "Discuss Her Sexuality", "Girlfriend - Spend Time with Her" and "Watch TV with Her".
If Lesbian or Domme, "Lesbian Session" or "Domme Session" should be available.
I think you might have encountered a bug.
Make sure you are playing 0.7m version of the game and try to make a new save game and try to follow the same steps you took and if it is still an issue, we can try to further fix your issue.
I test again apparently the menu shows up the following week after you make her my girlfriend.