- Jul 11, 2019
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It's funny how our life experience shape us differently. I know exactly where you're coming from because I was you! I've been a "giver" most of my life, same as you are now. And I still derive a lot of gratification from making a girl cum. But our experience of how that works out in the long run in the real world couldn't be any more different. You're trying to explain water to a fish here. And you're turning anecdotes into facts. Here's some highly anecdotal "facts" from the other side:There was one other point I forgot to make. Fun fact, every girl is a squirter if you're good enough with your hands. And this line right here that you delivered, about her being tired making zero sense... you're kind of calling out your own inexperience here. You've never give a girl a chain of 2-3 body rocking orgasms before, or you would know that most girls have a hard limit. I've lost count of the amount of times I've left a girl face down and shaking on my bed, unable to continue, without my own pleasure being attended to. And it's fine, because I love knowing that I was so good that I straight up put her on disability for the rest of the night, and I didn't even need to give her the D to do it. The ego boost is so phenomenal that I don't care about my physical needs. I have to get them a glass of water 'cause they're parched from all the heavy breathing and can't get it themselves because their legs don't work anymore. It's AWESOME.
I get comments all the time about how no guy has ever done this for her, or how they're so used to guys just doing what feels good to them, and then ending things when they're done, leaving the girl unsatisfied. Word to the wise, my friend, don't be the guy that girls complain about to guys like me. Becoming partner-focused was the best decision I made in my life, and the amount of surprise, gratitude, and straight up addiction I get from them is astounding. THEY chase ME, not the other way around. They end up wanting to "get me back" for what I did to them, promising to disable me just as completely. And boy, do they try. It's a game that has winners on both sides, completely different from the style of interaction you seem to expect, namely the "It Only Good If Me Get Off Somehow" school of thought. Just because it isn't the typical meathead thing to do doesn't make it wrong. So, respectfully, get outta here with that "you need to research how real life horny people work," and your talk of the MC having "virgin energy." I take these things as insults, and I have far more experience than you realize.
1. People who give freely gets taken advantage of. It will be expected that you'll keep giving and if you suddenly stop then you'll get shit for it.
2. What's given freely isn't valued. Earned rewards on the other hand...
3. When you make the main focus a girl's pleasure over yours, you subconciously signal that she is worth more than you. Very few women are ok with this dynamic in the long run. I've gone through this process a couple of times and it has ended miserably every single time. They generally want a partner they can look up to, whose time is more valuable than theirs. They expect the dynamic to be the other way around, where it is them who feel obliged to give because otherwise you might go to someone else with your needs. When you break from these expectations you get problems you didn't even know could exist.
The real world does not reward givers, it shits on them mercilessly. "Fact".
Maybe you just exude alpha traits from every pore of your body and you're jacked as shit and all that, which makes you able to keep exhibiting these behaviours without having them come back to bite you hard in the face. Or maybe you've just found the right girl, to which I say congratulations, because then you've found a unicorn. Either way, it must be good to be you.