It is forced on the player, we have no option to say no.
Some other things forced on the player:
Attending WVM. We didn't get to choose his college of choice.
Moving into a house with Rachael. We didn't get to choose which house the characters live in.
Giving Kimmy the house. Why couldn't we keep it for ourselves?
Not giving Ryker what he wants. We are forced to stay at WVM.
Meeting Wendy. Why couldn't we be angry at her and not see her?
We don't get the chance to cozy up with Charles. We are forced to be opposed to his ideas.
Taking Azel to WVM. Why not leave her all alone?
Forced to fight Ryker and his goons. Why didn't we get a chance to walk away?
Being in a relationship with Jamie. Why couldn't we just be with Shauna?
Being in a relationship with Shauna. Why couldn't we just be with Jamie?