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For her the forbidden fruit plays a factor, not so much for me. I definitely deal with jealousy at times, often I have none at all, it depends on my state of mind at the time. We have few rules, but one we do have, if one of us says no then its all stop, no questions asked. We do talk about it later of course. Far less regret saying no then doing something that can damage us. Its an essenital safety valve.Do any feelings about the "forbidden fruit" aspect of it, stir your coffee? Or do feel some innate jealousy even now?
I'm like in the camp; it's better than watching porn because you don't have any mutual connection with a pornstar like you and your partner do, so you can tell it's not acting. For me, watching my wife giving a blowjob to a guy, the first time, was exciting and confusing at the same time.