I can't believe I'm saying this but somehow a porn game giving me a bit of a closure to one of my relationship. The story with Ana hit me hard since I'm in the same spot as the MC...well she didn't cheat on me per se but it was one of those long distance relationship thing.
We have been dating for more than 4 years before I have to move to a different country for a better future that I've always dream of......and we start having a long distance relationship for another 3 years before she decide to call it off. She said we lost the "spark" in our relationship, that she can't wait for me any longer. I didn't explode to the news instead I was implode.
We are still friend, but I'll be lying if I said in the back of my mine I didn't blame her for not waiting for me, I just want to become a citizen first before I pop the question, I thought she was THE ONE, I thought she was mine, and I was her.....I'll be lying if I said I don't have any feeling for her every time we met.
So at the end of the story when the MC talk to a psychiatrist about his relationship with Ana, it feel like I've also talk to a psychiatrist about mine.........
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Meh enough of my rambling, this is by far my favorite game here, tho that didn't say much cuz i only play this game and being a Diks so far lol.
Look on the bright side: You learned a life lesson and pretty cheap too, most guys need a divorce and lose half their shit before they learn this: Monogamous Relationships don't work long time and that goes triple for Long Distance Shenanigans.
Of course she cheated on you. She was stringing you along (not hard since you're not there anyway) and explored other options. And then when she made the decision to upgrade one of them to Boyfriend Status she officially broke up with you. Sorry, but anyone who thinks long distance relationships work is simply delusional.
The Reality is Girls play the field as much as boys do. Actually even more so because they can have sex whenever they want (if they are half-way good looking) and since their sex drive is at least as high as a boys, expecting them to be this little innocent being is ridiculous. Of course most can hide it very, very well because there is a giant social stigma attached to being viewed as "a slut".
How do I know this? Because when girls have the feeling that you are "in on this" they actually talk freely to you and believe me most grown man would blush at the shit your average 20 year old pulls on a regular basis.
If you're smart you use this "Tragedy" as a wake-up call and don't do what most idiots do and run straight ahead right into the next trap. When you're 35+ and have seen the world and made all your experiences (and, yes, played the field) THEN you can make an educated decision to marry someone. (Even then it's probably dumb) Most guys just hitch their wagon to first girl that says "yes" and they are willing to bend over backwards with both eyes closed tight, just so they can keep their disney fantasy alive.
As far as i am concerned, you dodged a bullet, dude. Could have been far worse. Imagine you actually married her ...
Think a Ring would've changed anything? Wake up. She would have made the exact same decision only a few years later because getting divorced is an additional hurdle. And the end result would've been exactly the same. Only she would've "stolen" even more years from you and left with half your shit to boot.
Look, i get your pain (even if i am a cold-hearted bastard) but growing up is painful. For everybody. Your decision now is if you use this opportunity to grow or to retreat back into you little denial-shell. Only if you chose the second way is this truly a write-off. You'll just circle back and a few year later you are right where you started.
And please, whatever you do, don't stay friends with her, just because you hope she'll on day change her mind. It rings on your door and she stands there, you almost can't see it because of the pouring rain but she is crying and then she falls into your arms and says it was all a big mistake and you are the one and she'll marry you.
That's pathetic. It's not gonna happen and if it does happen: Run as fast as you can.