Honestly, and this may seem harsh, I don't need to know the reasons why. Frankly it's nothing I haven't heard before, and I don't really understand them or know if it's even true. I can only take peoples word for it. But that's not the reason it's concerning. I'm sure you must have noticed just how many games are started and abandoned, especially among the futa on male category, and many of those would be devs say much the same as you have said.
In the past I have eagerly supported many promising attempts at futa on male games, as well as some others in other categories I enjoy, and they've all ended up being abandoned. Often before even really getting off the ground. It's very damaging to trust, and the reason I've ended up here on f95. That's why I said we'll have to wait and see what happens. I pray you will stick with it and produce a quality game in a category that is sorely lacking, as I also said it shows much promise even at this early stage. And if you do I will happily throw some money your way when I feel there's enough content to warrant it. But it's still wait and see right now.