You completely misunderstood what I said, perhaps quite purposefully. I'm not saying that "sex" doesn't apply to those situations. What I am saying is that when someone says "Is there sex in this game yet?" most of the time what they actually mean is "Has the MC actually had vaginal sex yet?" They could care less if two NPCs have sex, or if the MC has received a handjob. If you tell them there is sex in the game, and that's all they get when they play it, they're liable to be pretty disappointed. Often, when the question is asked, there's a response like "The MC got a blowjob from X, but so far no actual sex." Sex is a vague term that can be taken to mean a lot of things, but contextually I think most people understand that in a game like this it has that very specific meaning, or they'll err on the side of spelling out exactly what sexual acts there are to give a more comprehensive answer. Most people asking the question with regards to BBS have played the game in the past, and already know there's been blowjobs, and sexual acts not involving the MC. They are most obviously not forgetting about those when they ask if there's sex in the game yet.
It's generally a straightforward process, other than when people choose to deliberately misunderstand it. It's akin to someone asking you when the United States was discovered, and instead of giving the answer of 1492 that they were obviously looking for, you instead give a long-winded and not terribly helpful answer about how it was not discovered, because there were already people living there, and segueing into a critique of western imperialism. Yes, you are technically correct, because you answered the wording of the question, but not the actual meaning behind it. And in fact you knew from the start the answer the person was actually looking for, but chose to pretend to not understand it to try to make a point or further your own views, and to even feign offense at the person's completely reasonable question.
It reminds me of the old joke about the man who walks up to another guy with a dog sitting next to him. The first guy asks the second "Does your dog bite?" The second guy goes "no". The first guy bends down to pet the dog, and immediately gets bitten. He indignantly tells the second guy "You said your dog didn't bite!" to which the second guy responds "Well, that's not my dog." The second guy is technically right, but he's also very wrong in that he knew the context behind the question but chose to ignore it to give the literal answer.
I understood very well what you said, but indeed I was deliberately seeking to open the debate in a broader sense, and not just contextually. This was my only intention and I do not hide it. That's why I was answering in a roundabout way, because I always try to go beyond words, and understand the reasoning behind it.
I often have discussions with other people around me, but here in this specific context, I was surprised by the comments from players. I believe that it is normal to want to establish a connection between on the one hand, the world that we know, and on the other hand the one that we are trying to discover.
I understand that most people, at least here, take a shortcut by using the word sex to mean something very specific.
I'm trying to figure out what the differences people see between a porn video and the porn game are, beyond involving the player's decisions instead of passively watching a video . It is this hidden part that interests me.
You are making a mistake by making me certain malicious intentions. I don't use reverse psychology. Yes, I put my opinion forward, but only to open the debate, what you did and I thank you for it. Certainly not to impose it on others. And no, I am absolutely not pretending to be offended, I am just careful in warning people reading that I am not targeting anyone. for me, the opinion of others is as important as mine. People who know me say that I tend to be bellicose, but they know that I am just trying to jostle lightly to get a debate going in circles. So, sorry if I was awkward with words, but I hope you understand better what I'm looking for.
Edit: Your joke of the two men and the dog is quite funny but it shows that you see bad intentions in me.
Let me give you an example. I have a couple of friends who were becoming more and more intrigued by some of my activities. They were not aware of my involvement in the world of porn. In short, Once un upon a time ... I was the one who made them meet. The wife of this couple and I were very close but I was already in a relationship at the time.
Years later they were getting curious and I decided to talk to them about it. They were very surprised at the start, but they ended up agreeing to follow me to a swinger club, and slowly they joined this new life.
I could have seen this as an opportunity, because this woman and I have always had a great affinity, and if I was happy to see them open up and abandon certain taboos, it is mainly because I saw their couple flourish again.
I am a whole person. Sometimes a little rough but I'm always straightforward and honest.