Jesus this whole thing is pathetic.
I like DnD, I like video games. The power fantasy of playing games or roleplaying, and going around killing things for example, is a lot of fun.
Am I going to now become a serial killer? Of course not. Becauses fantasies are just that unless you seriously have no self control or perception.
Femdom is celebrated a lot more then maledom irl not because of some plot or conspiracy, but because it lacks the abhorrent historical (and modern) stigma associated with maledom. Women still get beaten, sold off, raped, denied voting, etc in many parts of the world. Even in western countries, sexism is still rampant, even if its lesser to how it was 60/70 years ago.
It should also be noted that maledom is only on the rise, not decline, and indeed tends to be more common then femdom in general. It could even be argued that maledom is considered the norm, given that when it comes to vanilla sex the 'default' has the man in the position of power/dominance.
The fact is, even in most western countries, men still have it better off then women. That's not to say men don't have it bad sometimes, or worse in certain aspects. But in terms of chance of sexual assault, employment, safety etc, while men can and do sometimes get screwed over and that's not okay, men on the whole tend to have it better. Also men get pockets.
Femdom isn't changing any of that. It's not a drug, it's a fantasy like any other. For the most someone into light femdom isn't going to after a few years want heavier femdom. People's kinks and tolerances rarely change all that much, and while plenty might discover new things about themselves, that's usually the case of discovering what was already there, rather then truly developing something new.
Hell a great amount of people into femdom are also into maledom, switches are very very common after all.
TLDR: Femdom is not the apocalypse, kinks are fine just be sensible about them and make sure that you treat your fantasies as fantasies, don't let them become your actual world views. It's dumb and unhealthy.
I respect your opinion and though I disagree with most of what you say about men have it better as it depends on many factors, like whether you live in 1st world countries or 3rd world countries, or whether you live in a free society or not-so-free societies,
or you live in a feminists-heavy policy countries/counties.
I like video games, I like eastern/Japanese RPG much more than DnD, though sometimes I dabble on western counterpart (like WoW, Hearthstone, M&G. Killing things for fun in GTA and Musou-style games? Why not? I don't disagree with you in this aspect.
The reason I speak out about this femdom kinks that might be turned into extremity is due to its addictive nature with no point of return if you don't have any restraint or have tint of obssessive behavior to instant pleasurable additives, which is prevalent in many younger male generations where they bing first on "light" one and it turns to nightmare later on because in a much later state, it will be too late. I'm just warning about the danger of femdom because the way it's easy to get in and once you dip in it, you will require more and more (same with any other addictive substances, such as drugs, that more likely harm yourself).
Another reason is that maledom is heavily censored and hated in many western developed countries. You can see in many online platforms that any hint of male "domination" is prohibited. You will have many more enemies around you if you like maledom, because not only the females and women will hate you for it, but also the whiteknights, simps, femcels, and incels might hate you too. Because they all love being 'femdomized'.. The laws, culture, mainstream media, educational institutions all support this notion. You can try a social experiment to prove my reason. (a woman hit a man, a man hit a woman. Which one will be more hated and shunned? Who will be condemned first? Who will be helped regardless of contexts, situations? ) You can answer it yourself.
The reason is that:
1. First if you practice it often enough, it will damage your self-esteem as a man as you force yourself to be the sub (this may be different depending on your personality type, but just as you said above, a man is normally created to be the dominant one in a healthy relationship with a woman, as he is the one who will usually initiate the relationship. However, this nature has been changing in several decades, especially in the western developed countries.
2. Next, respectfully, I heavily disagree with your notion:
(Femdom is celebrated a lot more then maledom irl not because of some plot or conspiracy, but because it lacks the abhorrent historical (and modern) stigma associated with maledom)
First, I don't say it is about some plot or conspiracy, but it's the truth that no one cares about the plight of oppressed and marginalized men in the past and in the current era, even more than women. Most of people like you only care of one gender, that is woman or probably the newer version of "women" and the colorful other genders like non-binary one?. Because it's tied to the natural biology of men to protect women, thus blinding people like you and focus on only the plight of women and whiteknighting all women although they can also make mistakes and can be as evil as men, though they use different tactics than men to oppress men.
When men oppress women, it tends to get physical, but when women oppress men, you will not see it directly as it is more likely to be psychological, social, relationship, status, legal, educational, or any other things besides physical. That is why, unsuspecting men would not second guess that the "oppressed" gender must be women. You will not see the gradual change in culture, society, laws, regulations in one day, but it CHANGES. See many western European countries and the US, and many other developed countries where the feminist groups are heavily funded by the taxpayers' money. They push all the insanities that you people enjoy in the developed western world.
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It should also be noted that maledom is only on the rise, not decline, and indeed tends to be more common then femdom in general. It could even be argued that maledom is considered the norm, given that when it comes to vanilla sex the 'default' has the man in the position of power/dominance.
If you think the vanilla sex and maledom is considered the maledom, you are totally wrong. You can have a woman who wants to have sex with a man, and the one who has the position of power or dominance is the woman. There are dominant women, there are also dominant men. The dominance
IS NOT determined by
WHAT YOU HAVE BETWEEN YOUR CROTCH. This is my point. People often mistake
a sex is the
act of FORCING WOMEN to have sex by a MAN, which must mean
THE MEN ARE OPPRESSING WOMEN TO HAVE SEX. This notion is totally wrong. If you believe this, your talking point is exactly just like
feminists' ideologies (feminism).
Further, The vanilla sex is vanilla, which is normal sex. Often, a consensual sex where both parties agree with each other to have sex. If you think this type of sex is "maledom", which I can of understand, your mind has been successfully brainwashed. This normal sex
IS NOT MALEDOM.
What constitutes maledom is there a domination aspect of the male to the female, which might NOT BE CONSENSUAL (should constitute at least some kind of forceful action). The same can be said to FEMDOM. And it can be expanded through the BDSM plays. Well, at least that's my definition. If you have different definition, so be it. But, don't force YOUR DEFINITION and your worldview on others and be made laws and regulations that FORCE your ideology.
This is my point.
Problem is, very few people see this problem at all, and just swallow and regurgitate.
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he fact is, even in most western countries, men still have it better off then women. That's not to say men don't have it bad sometimes, or worse in certain aspects. But in terms of chance of sexual assault, employment, safety etc, while men can and do sometimes get screwed over and that's not okay, men on the whole tend to have it better. Also men get pockets.
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Your talking points are exactly what feminists would say.
First of all, NO, women and men DO NOT HAVE IT BETTER.
Both are now BITTER and WORSE OFF because of your forced
idiotic laws and
making relationship between a healthy man who wants a healthy normal relationship with a healthy woman very difficult and very twisted (you have to have consent in whatever you say, whatever you do, lest you can be charged with sexual assault, and your reputation and job as a man can be lost at once). You can be jailed just for looking at a woman, you can be jailed just because of a false rape/false sexual harrassment allegation by a woman who dislike you. The point is that you can be jailed just because you exist as a man.
In many developed western countries, the women are protected classes, you have all the scholarships dedicated to women, you have all the psychological help centers to women, you have the gender quota for women in universities, you have the gender quota in many governmental projects (at least YOU HAVE TO HIRE ONE, even though there is no woman wants the job, which is one of the most idiotic LAW,
and people like you would still blindly support it making everyone miserable because the one who is going to be hired will be incompetent due to "quota" and if not, you people will double down on being whatsover your talking points)..especially ones who have the higher social status, and if you're in the minority, you have double points for being women and minority groups. That is why now western college and universities are inundated by women except for STEM field not because there is lack of opportunities, but because of
preferences. This is what people often mistake preferences (and freewill) and forced "outcome".
What men pocket??? You mean women's pocket? In many normal families who have strong male figure, the woman(wife) should be the one who manage the financial matter. What are you on about???
You haven't dug enough and don't know some dark histories of Queen and Female in Power (western countries) where men who are captured are tortured and made livestocks, raped, and robbed of their dignities.
Ancient Chinese Queen who has lots of eunuchs under her to "work" dirty things with her. Do you think queens and concubines in the past are oppressed? No, they have the highest privilege as a woman in the kingdom. They can practically do "anything" possible to anyone as the only they are not free is only to submit to the king. As long as she can utilize this privileged relationship, she can practically get anything, including femdom relationship, which is not storied and provided in the historical annals due to political correctness and heavily skewed feminists
Femdom isn't changing any of that. It's not a drug, it's a fantasy like any other. For the most someone into light femdom isn't going to after a few years want heavier femdom. People's kinks and tolerances rarely change all that much, and while plenty might discover new things about themselves, that's usually the case of discovering what was already there, rather then truly developing something new.
The problem is NOT the femdom. But, the evil people behind the laws and regulations who 'influence' people through culture, education, government, corporation, big media, etc. who push the toxic ideologies and make it the norm! and those people force other people to conform. that's the problem
Femdom, just like any other genre, is only one genre among myriad genres of sexual kinks. As long as people can respect each other preferences and NOT to force others to conform to your ideology or worldview. That's fine. But, reality is not just like beautiful rainbows....
