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[Daba]

I am somewhat curious is there any group behind the rise of femdom related erotic content in general, Because i am surprised at the drastic increase of them in erotica, the reason i am asking this because decades ago i was enjoying stories with light femdom but now i find it harder to find them as most femdom stories proceed to cuck the mc or feminize him or both.

Research concepts such as "Overton window" & "framing" and you might arrive at a conclusion.
All media not only inform, but also program its audience.
Since this is a porn site, I won't put any sociological comments here, especially in today's age where truth is reduced to marketing product.

 

[TomWant Badass]

Daba, you are totally right. Tons of new femdom games but good luck finding maledom!
I really like badass maskuline hero MC games with maledom, love and kinky bdsm.

Wtf, i am to old for this gynocentric shit we man have to endure!
Look at this marvel BS, Shehulk stronger than Hulk? Wtf, i get a superstrong headache!
1998 the female tennis world dominating tennis monstermuscles doping sisters serena and venus williams said at the australian open, they beat every man who is not in the top 200!
German skinny small and weak chainsmoker Karsten Braasch on place 203 took the bait and smashed serena 6:1 and venus 6:2 in Melbourne 1998.

It is very difficult to find new games with maledom tag! Everything new is femdom, sissyfication, female protag or to extrem or to mild! Tons of games with incest, but good luck when you search a game with fisting or vagina piercing. And tons of harem games with bluepilled beta grinding. Ask Gengish Khan how he made his 1000 wife Harem? No Grind, only pure raw maskuline maledom superpower! All this BS about talking girls into your bed, LOL. It has never worked and will never work. They are attracted to you or not, period! Powerful rich NBA players get laid and have a roaster of 20 girls, broken obese 8 dollars minimum wage McDonalds worker dont get laid. And no grinding sweet talk could change that, all woman are fans of hypergamy!

 

[Deleted member 301317]

I also agree that it is somewhat difficult to find maledom content, So i was wondering whether these game creators get backlashed so they stopped creating such genre, Because there are many games where the male mc is abused physically, mentally(femdom,ntr,sissy etc) but new games with maledom content are very few but even those games contain very light maledom.

 

[TomWant Badass]

I also agree that it is somewhat difficult to find maledom content, So i was wondering whether these game creators get backlashed so they stopped creating such genre, Because there are many games where the male mc is abused physically, mentally(femdom,ntr,sissy etc) but new games with maledom content are very few but even those games contain very light maledom.

Yes, you are totally right! I played this very good Bdsm and Vaniila or all kinks game
Nothing Is Forever [v0.5.1] [MrSilverLust]
https://f95zone.to/threads/nothing-is-forever-v0-5-1-mrsilverlust.87506/
in this game you can choose everything!! And after each chapter the dev show you how much of his Patreons choose femdom, maledom or vanilla in exact% and this boring femdom with only feetfuck and cockcage with orgasm denial is allways higher than maledom with rough vagina and anal sex and bdsm Nipple clamps! He says femdom to maledom is 65% to 35%, i am schocked!
Next war we westeners should send our Grandmas and Grandpas to the frontlines, the young boys are weak Snowflakes without any maskuline Characteristics and any testeronone or fighting abilities!!
Even the last mens areas like the redpill Youtoube channels are concuered from single women like 26j Just pearly things 1,25 milion subs, more than every male content creator! And the others like 27j Courtney Ryan with more than 0,5 million subscibers in very short time makes 30000 € p month, and the lovely Jedidiah Bila 44j but looks like 34j who has only 157000 subs but is the only one who is married and tbh she is a really nice beautiful hot women for her age, with the best content from a married wife who knows what is true!

Is this bad or good? I dont know, but i have to admit that i often watch this women content bec they are very entertaining and not as bitter as some men channels like Better Bachelor ( i would call him Bitter Bachalor, ok after 2 divorces he is understandably a little bit bitter).

 

[Deleted member 301317]

Yes, you are totally right! I played this very good Bdsm and Vaniila or all kinks game
Nothing Is Forever [v0.5.1] [MrSilverLust]
https://f95zone.to/threads/nothing-is-forever-v0-5-1-mrsilverlust.87506/
in this game you can choose everything!! And after each chapter the dev show you how much of his Patreons choose femdom, maledom or vanilla in exact% and this boring femdom with only feetfuck and cockcage with orgasm denial is allways higher than maledom with rough vagina and anal sex and bdsm Nipple clamps! He says femdom to maledom is 65% to 35%, i am schocked!
Next war we westeners should send our Grandmas and Grandpas to the frontlines, the young boys are weak Snowflakes without any maskuline Characteristics and any testeronone or fighting abilities!!
Even the last mens areas like the redpill Youtoube channels are concuered from single women like Just pearly things 1,25 milion subs, more than every male content creator! And the others like Courtney Ryan with more than 0,5 million subscibers in very short time makes 30000 € p month, and the lovely Jedidiah Bila who has only 157000 subs but is the only one who is married and tbh she is a really nice beautiful hot women for her age with the best content from a married wife who knows what is true!

Is this bad or good? I dont know, but i have to admit that i often watch this women content bec they are very entertaining and not as bitter as some men channels like Better Bachelor ( i would call him Bitter Bachalor, ok after 2 divorces he is understandably a little bit bitter).

The thing is kinks are being normalized in the social media nowadays so almost everyone says that its okay to act upon your kinks if you do not harm other, but the problem is it is very difficult to find whether such kinks are affecting you negatively because almost every kinks got a group of people validating that their kink is normal and they felt happier after incorporating such kinks into their public lifestyle.I almost fell into the trap since my normal kink got pretty messed up due to porn addiction, thankfully i was back to normal after i defeated my addiction.

 

[Deleted member 4520921]

He says femdom to maledom is 65% to 35%, i am schocked!

I am not entirely shocked.

BIG DISCLAIMER:
Autistic rant incoming.
This is all a wide and unfounded generalization, so cherrypick your own truth.
Don't take this as value judgement, I am just trying to explain what I think is going on.
All kinds of games are cool IMHO.

I think there are a lot of understandable reasons why the demand for femdom media is larger than the demand for maledom media.

TL;DR
I think the reasons are the following:
1. More sub males though:
- Frustrations in the current dating market
- Media Bias for femdom
2. The desire for femdom is not met IRL due to:
- Shame
- Low interest from women
=> As a result, the desire for fantasy femdom is supercharged.



The trends are:

a) Frustrated men
The number of guys who can't find satisfying relationships keeps growing. Their frustration could boost submissive tendencies and their interest in femdom. This boosts the numbers of submissive men.

Check out

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article (from your spelling, I assume you speak german, otherwise translate it).
In parallel,

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article matches the trend.
TLDR: The fastest growing market segments for sex toys are dolls and cock cages.
TLDR2: The fastest growing demography in sexual terms are sexless men.

Who needs dolls? Guys who lack girlfriends.
Who eroticizes cock cages / sexual denial? Guys who experienced sexual denial before, aka lack of sex.
Who is open for non-traditional gender roles? People who experienced little success in their traditional role so far.

b) Media Gender Tropes
The broader culture favors inverted gender roles in media. (You already mentioned she-hulk.) Weak, feminine men and bossy masculine women are a common trope. Each gender is depicted as a caricature of the other. Basically, the media promotes femdom-style relationship roles. This boosts the numbers of submissive men.

Pick your own media based evidence.
Also, if maledom media enters the mainstream, it can get cancelled in many countries.
Currently, at least in western countries, censorship against "toxic masculinity" is probably stronger than censorship against non-traditional expressions of sexuality.

c) Few Femdom Relationships IRL
Even though the number of men into femdom is growing, women are generally less interested and their number has not shifted that much. This means submissive men are not very likely to find a relationship that can satisfy their kink. So they have a higher need for alternative outlets like erotic games.

Look at any BDSM dating site and observe how tons of sub men flock to very few domme women. If you subtract the ones who are in it for money, the ratio of dommes to male subs is very very low.

d) Shame IRL
Even though media acceptance of femdom is high, social acceptance is probably not that high. Many submissive men probably don't want to be seen as weak, which would be likely if they exposed their kinks to their social circle and especially sexual partners. So many who are not hardcore into femdom, but only slightly interested, will prefer to keep it a fantasy. So they have a higher need for alternative outlets like erotic games.




Does this make sense?
Please don't crucify me for the kitchen psychology style generalizations.
We are not all scientists, but still have to make sense of our observations.
And a rough an inaccurate model is better than none, if you know its limits.

 

[RetiredMember]

I am not entirely shocked.

BIG DISCLAIMER:
Autistic rant incoming.
This is all a wide and unfounded generalization, so cherrypick your own truth.
Don't take this as value judgement, I am just trying to explain what I think is going on.
All kinds of games are cool IMHO.

I think there are a lot of understandable reasons why the demand for femdom media is larger than the demand for maledom media.

TL;DR
I think the reasons are the following:
1. More sub males though:
- Frustrations in the current dating market
- Media Bias for femdom
2. The desire for femdom is not met IRL due to:
- Shame
- Low interest from women
=> As a result, the desire for fantasy femdom is supercharged.



The trends are:

a) Frustrated men
The number of guys who can't find satisfying relationships keeps growing. Their frustration could boost submissive tendencies and their interest in femdom. This boosts the numbers of submissive men.

Check out

You must be registered to see the links

article (from your spelling, I assume you speak german, otherwise translate it).
In parallel,

You must be registered to see the links

article matches the trend.
TLDR: The fastest growing market segments for sex toys are dolls and cock cages.
TLDR2: The fastest growing demography in sexual terms are sexless men.

Who needs dolls? Guys who lack girlfriends.
Who eroticizes cock cages / sexual denial? Guys who experienced sexual denial before, aka lack of sex.
Who is open for non-traditional gender roles? People who experienced little success in their traditional role so far.

b) Media Gender Tropes
The broader culture favors inverted gender roles in media. (You already mentioned she-hulk.) Weak, feminine men and bossy masculine women are a common trope. Each gender is depicted as a caricature of the other. Basically, the media promotes femdom-style relationship roles. This boosts the numbers of submissive men.

Pick your own media based evidence.
Also, if maledom media enters the mainstream, it can get cancelled in many countries.
Currently, at least in western countries, censorship against "toxic masculinity" is probably stronger than censorship against non-traditional expressions of sexuality.

c) Few Femdom Relationships IRL
Even though the number of men into femdom is growing, women are generally less interested and their number has not shifted that much. This means submissive men are not very likely to find a relationship that can satisfy their kink. So they have a higher need for alternative outlets like erotic games.

Look at any BDSM dating site and observe how tons of sub men flock to very few domme women. If you subtract the ones who are in it for money, the ratio of dommes to male subs is very very low.

d) Shame IRL
Even though media acceptance of femdom is high, social acceptance is probably not that high. Many submissive men probably don't want to be seen as weak, which would be likely if they exposed their kinks to their social circle and especially sexual partners. So many who are not hardcore into femdom, but only slightly interested, will prefer to keep it a fantasy. So they have a higher need for alternative outlets like erotic games.




Does this make sense?
Please don't crucify me for the kitchen psychology style generalizations.
We are not all scientists, but still have to make sense of our observations.
And a rough an inaccurate model is better than none, if you know its limits.

I agree though at some points as the rise of f*minism has given much rise to weak, sub males, as they are easier to be controlled, dominated, and managed than dominant males. Making normal relationship very difficult for men and women in general.
I believe, though, in my opinion, it used to be more dom men than sub men in real life vs. more sub women than dom women naturally (although the numbers is growing reversely now due to unnatural programming from the "new" western culture). That is what the media, educational institutions, the government and all forces behind the feminimization and reversing gender role proponents of "feminine" male and "masculine" female want to strive for, the overthrowing of "patriarchy" as they are portrayed as the oppressors and making "empowered" females.
What does it entail? We would see the surge of femdom content, sissification of males, feminine male porn, effeminate males, etc in all content, including the porn bashing men and masculinity. And it's not only happening in the West, but also in the East.

On the flip side, it's good to be oldies because you know how you lived in the 60's and 70's in totally different culture than now where there were few karens and snowflakes.
You might find some gems from all those thrashes outside, though, maybe we can make our own 'maledom' content that is specifically catered to old souls.

 

[blarg0192]

As a fan of both, i think you might be looking a little bit too much into it, but dammit you have somethings 100% right. Just because I occasionally want a a woman to choke me out while pegging me like a Lucky Hit board doesn't mean I want any weird "sissification" shit, or chastity cages, or crossdressing, or any of that shit.

 

[Deleted member 301317]

As a fan of both, i think you might be looking a little bit too much into it, but dammit you have somethings 100% right. Just because I occasionally want a a woman to choke me out while pegging me like a Lucky Hit board doesn't mean I want any weird "sissification" shit, or chastity cages, or crossdressing, or any of that shit.

Be careful, you never know where your occasional thoughts could get you into, try reading some of the rebooting account stories on yourbrainonporn, where some people pretty soon got into the weird shit just from some rare fantasy.

 

[Deleted member 4520921]

Hey everyone, more autistic rants!
Please remember that these broad generalizations have no basis anywhere and don't apply to your life at all!
Just treat it like an idea buffet and ignore everything you don't like.

Be careful, you never know where your occasional thoughts could get you into

Just because I occasionally want a a woman to choke me out while pegging me like a Lucky Hit board doesn't mean I want any weird "sissification" shit, or chastity cages, or crossdressing, or any of that shit.

I think it's not an accident that the whole genre of "sissyfication" usually presents a "slippery slope" style transformation of sexuality.
From just a bit of initial curiosity, the main character "learns to like it". Basically, it is a fetishistic obsession running wild.

Common tropes:

• Sometimes start with initial curiosity, but never a conscious decision to "transform"
  • Porn (often progressing stepwise from vanilla into hardcore into BDSM into femdom)
  • Origin story "You have always been a feminine boy"
• A kickstarter for forcing action
  • Coercion through debt / greed
  • Coercion through social authority
    • (Step-)Mom
    • Teacher
    • Boss
  • Seduction by a hot woman that gradually becomes more dominant
• Gradual introduction of more extreme elements
  • Start with following clothing instructions, end up wearing a chastity cage
  • Start with make-up, end up with tits
  • Start with a buttplug, end up getting pegged
  • Start with getting pegged, end up getting fucked by men
• Removal/Transformation of elements from "old life"
  • Mom turns into domme
  • Old friend turns into top
  • Secretary turns into blackmailer
  • Friend circles are gone or lose respect
• NO REAL END
  • This one is interesting. In most cases there is no "happy ever after". The transformations just become more extreme until the game is abandoned at some point.
  • The hedonistic rabbit hole has no bottom.
  • The game just ends when the audience loses interest because paradoxically the starting stage is the most interesting. The main character is essentially abandoned in the end.
  • What is missing, is the "building" element of maledom fantasies, where you work to create a good situation and end up with a healthy kingdom/harem/...

It's frequently a slippery slope that ends in disaster (if the story is told until the end).
That's pretty much the same process that "yourbrainonporn" would alert you to.
So I see an agreement there.

sub males, as they are easier to be controlled, dominated, and managed than dominant males

I think it goes both ways.

Feminine men are easy to control if you can control the women in their lives. They just can't say no. ("Happy wife, happy life")
And women tend to be easier to control through group phenomena, although there are probably many exceptions. ("That's why basically all

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are aimed at them.")



Things that work perfectly in fantasy sometimes fail in real life due to Nature(tm).
Humans have an innate preference for helping and protecting women.
This protective instinct was created to counter-balance out the direct physical and social power of men.
If you flip the power dynamic around, the protective instinct exaggerates the power imbalance instead of being a counterweight.
I think as a result, the well-being of the sub may be less important in femdom relationships, compared to maledom.

Masculine women are good for the economy. They work more and consume more.
In the short term, all politicians and business bosses love them.
So through a focus on the short term, promoting masculine women is very desirable to anyone with influence.
(In the long run it leads to population collapse, but current societies are firmly focused on the short term benefits.)

Femdom is a nice fantasy for the tired man. "Just relax, let go and the mistress will handle it."
She manages your sex life, scratches every masochistic itch, always has a new idea and you just need to let it happen.
But she is also pretty, dresses up in sexy fetish clothing and takes special care to appeal to your eyes.
But she also respects you, helps you in real life and handles your emotions as well as her own, like a mother figure.
That's a lot of roles to balance. Could she even handle that much responsibility? What would she get in return? Would it be worth it for her?
If it's not worth it, a woman would just lose interest in sex with you altogether. That means no relationship or a dead bedroom.
Maybe you could even out the imbalance in value through some exploitation, like findom & cuckolding. Not your thing?
In real life the perfect mistress that treats you like the female MC of a romantic novel probably doesn't exist. (And if she does, she already has a sub as well as 10 offers for a replacement.)
Giving up responsibility as a man is a bit of a guilty pleasure fantasy. The price of doing it IRL would be too high.

Sexual fantasies are weird, but it is worthwhile to make an effort to control them.
Only keep those that are compatible with a good, sustainable, balanced life.
Starve the rest out by removing your attention - no matter what it takes.

Oscar Wilde famously said: "The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it."
And most of modern media would agree with him, when it comes to sex. But before you listen to Oscar's advice, take 5 minutes to read about his

You must be registered to see the links

and focus on how well that mindset worked out for him.

In the right context, you could probably make pegging and choking work if you frame it as just pleasure and not submission.
And if you can keep the balance with other activities in- and outside the bedroom.
But take great care to take responsibility for your own fantasies and don't let them grow beyond what is healthy IRL.
And beforehand, check out her opinions to find out if she could respect you after an act like this.
(It depends on what it means to her.)

Okay, autistic rant 2 over.

That's it from me for now. Stopping the inner spambot...
Have a great week everyone.

 

[Deleted member 301317]

Hey everyone, more autistic rants!
Please remember that these broad generalizations have no basis anywhere and don't apply to your life at all!
Just treat it like an idea buffet and ignore everything you don't like.




I think it's not an accident that the whole genre of "sissyfication" usually presents a "slippery slope" style transformation of sexuality.
From just a bit of initial curiosity, the main character "learns to like it". Basically, it is a fetishistic obsession running wild.

Common tropes:

• Sometimes start with initial curiosity, but never a conscious decision to "transform"
  • Porn (often progressing stepwise from vanilla into hardcore into BDSM into femdom)
  • Origin story "You have always been a feminine boy"
• A kickstarter for forcing action
  • Coercion through debt / greed
  • Coercion through social authority
    • (Step-)Mom
    • Teacher
    • Boss
  • Seduction by a hot woman that gradually becomes more dominant
• Gradual introduction of more extreme elements
  • Start with following clothing instructions, end up wearing a chastity cage
  • Start with make-up, end up with tits
  • Start with a buttplug, end up getting pegged
  • Start with getting pegged, end up getting fucked by men
• Removal/Transformation of elements from "old life"
  • Mom turns into domme
  • Old friend turns into top
  • Secretary turns into blackmailer
  • Friend circles are gone or lose respect
• NO REAL END
  • This one is interesting. In most cases there is no "happy ever after". The transformations just become more extreme until the game is abandoned at some point.
  • The hedonistic rabbit hole has no bottom.
  • The game just ends when the audience loses interest because paradoxically the starting stage is the most interesting. The main character is essentially abandoned in the end.
  • What is missing, is the "building" element of maledom fantasies, where you work to create a good situation and end up with a healthy kingdom/harem/...

It's frequently a slippery slope that ends in disaster (if the story is told until the end).
That's pretty much the same process that "yourbrainonporn" would alert you to.
So I see an agreement there.



I think it goes both ways.

Feminine men are easy to control if you can control the women in their lives. They just can't say no. ("Happy wife, happy life")
And women tend to be easier to control through group phenomena, although there are probably many exceptions. ("That's why basically all

You must be registered to see the links

are aimed at them.")

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Things that work perfectly in fantasy sometimes fail in real life due to Nature(tm).
Humans have an innate preference for helping and protecting women.
This protective instinct was created to counter-balance out the direct physical and social power of men.
If you flip the power dynamic around, the protective instinct exaggerates the power imbalance instead of being a counterweight.
I think as a result, the well-being of the sub may be less important in femdom relationships, compared to maledom.

Masculine women are good for the economy. They work more and consume more.
In the short term, all politicians and business bosses love them.
So through a focus on the short term, promoting masculine women is very desirable to anyone with influence.
(In the long run it leads to population collapse, but current societies are firmly focused on the short term benefits.)

Femdom is a nice fantasy for the tired man. "Just relax, let go and the mistress will handle it."
She manages your sex life, scratches every masochistic itch, always has a new idea and you just need to let it happen.
But she is also pretty, dresses up in sexy fetish clothing and takes special care to appeal to your eyes.
But she also respects you, helps you in real life and handles your emotions as well as her own, like a mother figure.
That's a lot of roles to balance. Could she even handle that much responsibility? What would she get in return? Would it be worth it for her?
If it's not worth it, a woman would just lose interest in sex with you altogether. That means no relationship or a dead bedroom.
Maybe you could even out the imbalance in value through some exploitation, like findom & cuckolding. Not your thing?
In real life the perfect mistress that treats you like the female MC of a romantic novel probably doesn't exist. (And if she does, she already has a sub as well as 10 offers for a replacement.)
Giving up responsibility as a man is a bit of a guilty pleasure fantasy. The price of doing it IRL would be too high.

Sexual fantasies are weird, but it is worthwhile to make an effort to control them.
Only keep those that are compatible with a good, sustainable, balanced life.
Starve the rest out by removing your attention - no matter what it takes.

Oscar Wilde famously said: "The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it."
And most of modern media would agree with him, when it comes to sex. But before you listen to Oscar's advice, take 5 minutes to read about his

You must be registered to see the links

and focus on how well that mindset worked out for him.

In the right context, you could probably make pegging and choking work if you frame it as just pleasure and not submission.
And if you can keep the balance with other activities in- and outside the bedroom.
But take great care to take responsibility for your own fantasies and don't let them grow beyond what is healthy IRL.
And beforehand, check out her opinions to find out if she could respect you after an act like this.
(It depends on what it means to her.)

Okay, autistic rant 2 over.

That's it from me for now. Stopping the inner spambot...
Have a great week everyone.

If only more femdom games or erotica was like what you said, i mean it was years ago but somehow even in the light femdom the masculinity of men is completely stripped off from men.As most of these stories starts with light femdom roleplay somehow magically leads to extreme shit where the women starts controlling you by feminizing you and forcing you to suck here new bf cock.

And about real life things get complicated, i get what you say about taking some fantasies like pegging as pleasure but things could take a bad turn if you are addicted to such kinks with the addition of porn.I mean you will need the next shit to get more dopamine to pleasure which could easily destroy the relationship .And funnily most of the femdom stories have a similar plot where they sissifies their hubby or bf step by step where he gets satisified due to the dopamine hits as a result of the humiliation

 

[RetiredMember]

As a fan of both, i think you might be looking a little bit too much into it, but dammit you have somethings 100% right. Just because I occasionally want a a woman to choke me out while pegging me like a Lucky Hit board doesn't mean I want any weird "sissification" shit, or chastity cages, or crossdressing, or any of that shit.

You might only like light femdom right now, but the dopamine hit will never satisfy you later on.
Starts from light maso sexual fantasy -> light femdom -> heavy femdom -> being pegged and dominated -> forced crossdressing/pegged -> transforming into or sissified into a balls, '"ass"hole' and 'stick' -> BDSM -> heavy BDSM -> CBT -> male urethral sounding + CBT -> ball crushing + penis crushing + CBT etc -> gore etc. and it keeps getting extreme until you are left dead. And by the time you reach that, you have been long gone. You will have destroyed your penis, balls, bladder, and all your sexual organs etc. I read a real-life story where a man put in various 'torture' tools like sharp needles into his penis and deep into his balls and bladder. This man has become a complete 'moron' destroying his own body and left deformed forever.
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I never see a case such that for women at least until now by the time I wrote this.

 

[Deleted member 301317]

I never see a case such that for women at least until now by the time I wrote this.

I guess that is a niche fetish where content is extremely minimum so there won't be many females having such kinks.And these days men are programmed that any sort of violence is bad so you dont have many men who could be willing to act on such kinks.Maybe hardcore bdsm could be similar but with consent i guess they are always safe without crossing the point where they could regret.

But one thing i found funny was that consent was magically missing when i read femdom stories in the past when compared to maledom sories.As most of them were hell bent on forcing the male into accepting the new bottom role just because of the taste in porn.And then i shockingly discovered that some of the real life female led relations, the consent part is kinda bullshit because most of the time men are pushed into further kink lifestyle when they were locked in chastity.I find it hard to accept that it is consent because i think at that time, your actions were mostly focused on reaching the new dopamine hits.And then you are stuck in a vicious loop where you will go into any extreme just for the dopamine hits.

 

[blarg0192]

You might only like light femdom right now, but the dopamine hit will never satisfy you later on.
Starts from light maso sexual fantasy -> light femdom -> heavy femdom -> being pegged and dominated -> forced crossdressing/pegged -> transforming into or sissified into a balls, '"ass"hole' and 'stick' -> BDSM -> heavy BDSM -> CBT -> male urethral sounding + CBT -> ball crushing + penis crushing + CBT etc -> gore etc. and it keeps getting extreme until you are left dead. And by the time you reach that, you have been long gone. You will have destroyed your penis, balls, bladder, and all your sexual organs etc. I read a real-life story where a man put in various 'torture' tools like sharp needles into his penis and deep into his balls and bladder. This man has become a complete 'moron' destroying his own body and left deformed forever.
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I never see a case such that for women at least until now by the time I wrote this.

Wow. So much autism. By that same logic we're all going to become rapists from liking maledom games. The stupidity is almost unbearable

 

[Deleted member 301317]

Wow. So much autism. By that same logic we're all going to become rapists from liking maledom games. The stupidity is almost unbearable

Well, there is a large probability it might happen only if you are heavily addicted to kinks plus masturbation and without proper social life, For example you could be restless if you didn't masturbate to the porn content from the particular kink that day due to no new content, so that might eventually lead you to watch some extreme scenarios which you would have not done when you are normal.
You could find how it happened from some of the real life stories from

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[blarg0192]

Well, there is a large probability it might happen only if you are heavily addicted to kinks plus masturbation and without proper social life, For example you could be restless if you didn't masturbate to the porn content from the particular kink that day due to no new content, so that might eventually lead you to watch some extreme scenarios which you would have not done when you are normal.
You could find how it happened from some of the real life stories from

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You're one of those guys that thinks not fapping gives you superpowers aren't you?

 

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You're one of those guys that thinks not fapping gives you superpowers aren't you?

Nope, thats plain stupid but not fapping to porn helped me in dealing with addiction, i mean i was kinda fapping to porn of certain type daily where at some point it kinda made me want to do weird shit in real life to get that dopamine, but thankfully due to the overwhelming shame after post nut clarity i didn't do any thing that i would regret,then i tried to be porn free after getting to know about yourbrainonporn, which kinda helped me in controlling my addiction.

 

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Wow. So much autism. By that same logic we're all going to become rapists from liking maledom games. The stupidity is almost unbearable

Yes, it's all autism. Don't read too much into it, it's just fun to rant.

Also, issues like addiction & negative mindsets are very different in intensity for different people.
For example, I just love ranting.

Autistically speaking and from a male perspective, maledom is mentally more aggressive while femdom is more self-destructive.

An aggressive tendency is naturally moderated in real life (if you are smart about it). Factors are:
- Laws prevent the worst shortsighted excesses
- Consent adds a formal limit
- Compassion is a limit in your own mind to the damage you might cause
- The inherent instability of exploitation forces you to adapt your fantasies to a sustainable way. (If you think long-term.)

=> To make your power fantasies come close to true IRL, you need to convince other people it's good for them as well. Maledom is not exactly something you can do on your own in your room. King of the couch is not a strong title.

So if your maledom fantasy runs wild and tries to take over your life, simple logic along with the way the world currently works will already lead you to a more wholesome path that balances your will to power with the responsibility that society requires of you to actually get there. Otherwise you will just stay powerless.
(But if you do find a glitch, please have some compassion and don't go full Weinstein )

In contrast, a self-destructive tendency is not moderated externally that much:
- Laws don't protect you from yourself
- Consent can given by your horny mind
- Compassion is not always found in a partner interested in femdom
- Instability is only a problem for people who think long-term

=> When making your femdom fantasies come true IRL, there are less external guardrails stopping you. It's easy to crossdress in your room and use sex toys. And some woman on this earth will surely exploit you if you ask her. Worst case, an online findom grifter goddess.

So if your femdom fantasy runs wild and tries to take over your life, there is a bigger danger to actually fuck up your life. Some people actively fantasize about the "point of no return" when your "old life" is FUBAR.

Everything is survivable in moderation. So I am not criticising your personal interests.
But I argue that if a fetish were to grow in your mind, femdom is definitely something to be more guarded about than other things. It is easy to slip into and has huge incompatibilities with a wholesome life, if taken too far.

(ILLEGAL GENERALIZATIONS INCOMING!)
And I really suspect that the protective instinct mostly works from men towards women.
So a woman submitting to a man would be a cherished property that is fed well and fucked well and protected.
(And she would traditionally wield a lot of power through his desire to see her happy.)
In contrast, a man submitting to a woman would be a sexless slave that is exploited for labour and seen with contempt.
Maybe people know this subconsciously and that's why femdom fantasies and games tend to be more brutal.

but thankfully due to the overwhelming shame after post nut clarity i didn't do any thing that i would regret

The shame during PNC saved you and gave you back control of your mind.

That's why people use chastity devices to keep the blood out of their brains and stay mindlessly horny until it is too late. I actually think chastity fantasies are a really insidious thing. They are appealing for porn addicted people who have lost control of their sexual drive and try to regain it or refocus their energy. But instead, they just take away the chance for post nut clarity.

From the outside, it is easy to see when a man beats a woman.
But if a woman (or the man himself) destroys a man's psyche, there are no white knights coming to save him.
So he has to save himself and protect his mind like it's worth something.

Okay, rant over.
This is really fun.
But if the walls of text annoy you too much or distract from discussing games, feel free to delete it all.
Have a great day!

 

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That's why people use chastity devices to keep the blood out of their brains and stay mindlessly horny until it is too late. I actually think chastity fantasies are a really insidious thing. They are appealing for porn addicted people who have lost control of their sexual drive and try to regain it or refocus their energy. But instead, they just take away the chance for post nut clarity.

I am really surprised about the lack of warning about chastity devices in bdsm community which always screams about consent everywhere.As soon as your penis is locked you are going to be horny as hell so you might pretty much consent to extreme shit, well maybe not at first day but after you were prevented any release for weeks.

I think we are not far from days where a men could be feminized/change sex by surgery just because of the consent he gave when he was mindlessly horny while locked in a chastity.

 

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More autistic opinions that don't apply to YOUR life at all:

I am really surprised about the lack of warning about chastity devices in bdsm community which always screams about consent everywhere.

The BDSM community has completely changed over the years.
It used to be mostly maledom and very focused on sex and technical & protocol details of BDSM.
But now, the default is kink separate from sex. And the community is mostly led by women (afaik).

Since the chastity topic mostly concerns men, it is not seen as an important issue.
There is a social empathy gap between men and women, especially about looks & sex.
(Just check

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out and think compare it to

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.)

The goal of female chastity belts is usually

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& exclusivity which does include sex and

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. Still, this kind of ownership is seen as a

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& abusive thing today.
The goal of male chastity is usually to screw with the man's head. Male chastity subs

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do

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get sex

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. Routinely their women

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and just exploit their men for labour. But this is seen as "okay" if he "consents".

In reality, male chastity kink should raise huge red flags. It is essentially a disability kink. A fantasy of sexual disfunction. And a fantasy of escape from reality (and the whole male sexual role) through extreme dopamine combined with learned helplessness. It's every problem that can be associated with porn, supercharged to 11. It's similar to being

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on drugs. But since a drug can't distract you forever, there are always

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of

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when male chastity users face their self-imposed uselessness. If you look at the face

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of men into chastity, their facial expressions are very special. Sometimes

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, sometimes

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but rarely "happy & content". And their women tend to look happy about the power, but

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really "in love" with their man. (A bit of

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is common.) I would compare it in a way to drug

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and their addicted clients.

Especially people into maledom BDSM should be very careful. If you are already into the dopamine rush of having power, you are standing close to the slippery slope. Because if the dopamine rush is more important to you than your dignity and usefulness, the way to maximum dopamine leads

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becoming a

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chastity

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.

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is a story without classical consent, just clever coercion. Sexually, the woman has no interest at all. He is just useful for chores and power games. How would this be seen by the public media if the genders were swapped?

I think we are not far from days where a men could be feminized/change sex by surgery just because of the consent he gave when he was mindlessly horny while locked in a chastity.

I think a bigger issue than consent in the moment is the long-term

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and emotional dependence that is built up. The sum of progressive changes is a

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.
Interestingly, the concept of a binge-purge-cycle (basically a recurring mental battle between dopamine and shame) is described in similar ways for

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and some

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people tend to feel ashamed about.
Current media & education do

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give people the tools to successfully navigate the internet landscape and choose the type and intensity of fetishism that is compatible with their real life. It is just assumed that "feelings are always valid" and "

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", so you shouldn't try too hard to

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them.

But in real life, some fetishes are

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with a good life. And at least when it concerns ourselves, judgement is not

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if it raises our own standards.

People with actual practical experience know the slippery slope is real!
"Be careful what you wish for" is one of the

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in chastity forums.

These people know what they are talking about.
We should really all be careful what we wish for!