Tbh: As a Jill fan, I understand everything you said; I also felt like Jill will be interesting this season because her mom clearly going to feel some type of way about the MC, Bianca relationship drama & I see problems with Jill wanting the MC to make some changes about himself or feel some of type of his DIK behavior. I don't see him making changes to better himself, but not changes that make different.
Like her being upset that you acted that way towards that catfish, and I etc. I still feel she's in love with the Idea of him as Chick but not the rest of him.
Season 1, 2 & 3 made it clear she's into that side of him, even if you reject her as DIK, MC points that they don't work together.