Let's assume you are stranded on an island, no food, no water, no nothing. Then I come to the island and I open a McDonalds. You, being desperate and not wanting to starve, ask me if I can feed you. I agree to help you, but you have to do all these degrading things in exchange for it. You obviously agree, because otherwise you will die since you have no other choice.
Now change being able to eat, for college education. That's exactly what it's happening to her. How the hell is she not taking advantage and forcing her to do all that stuff?