- Jul 2, 2020
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As strange as it may be for someone to bring up cultural sexism on a website that caters primarily to horny men, here goes.Seeing that Bella preview screenshot made me wonder about her and Maya. Far be it for me to slut shame, but those are two characters I would have expected to dress the least provocatively.
It would have made more sense for a married, late 30's, sexually repressed librarian to dress ultra conservatively at the beginning of the story and then gradually dress more provocatively in each consecutive scene with MC since his magic dick "reawakens" her. I did see her in a pant suit in ep. 1 so I guess maybe she does have a slight progression??
As for Maya, in ep. 1, she says she doesn't want to attract any attention from guys. Uh, ok. Again, not to judge but you're wearing open midriff low cut tank tops with super short mini skirts, booty shorts and visible g-strings. Women don't wear g-strings for comfort, quoting an ex GF. I know lipstick lesbians are a thing, but if you don't want college dudes macking on you every 5 seconds, then check the attire. I think secretly, she does like the attention from guys. Daddy issues.
*Sets out the soapbox*
Even insinuating that a woman, real or fake, should have to consider what a bunch of men will think about her clothes is both ridiculous, and a very sad reality. There are many reasons that a woman may want to wear revealing clothes that don't include a man's inability to control his reproductive organs. She works really hard on her figure and wants to show it off, she's more comfortable that way, or, I don't know, because she JUST WANTS TO. "She shouldn't wear that if she doesn't want men to look at her and desire her" is just one small step from "she shouldn't wear that if she doesn't want to be raped". Women shouldn't have to wake up in the morning and think to themselves, "Hmmm, I don't want to be molested today. Well, sweat pants and a hoodie it is then." And before you come back at me with, "That's just reality," or "That's not really what I meant," actually think about the insinuations being made.
1-That she needs to dress a certain way because of how a man will react, positively or negatively.
2-That a mans inability to control themselves is somehow HER fault.
3-That the way one dresses is automatically a fast and hard judgement on one's morality.
You may not have wanted to "slut shame", but you did. You may not have wanted to make a comment with extremely obvious sexist undertones, but you did. I'm not surprised, and I'm not angry, and I'm not even a woman. But I AM saying you should look at the way you think about women and their clothes, and see if there isn't something you can change. Look at beautiful women, enjoy beautiful women, even fap to beautiful women. Don't project your insecurities onto them.
*Picks up soapbox*