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People in love, like Jill at this stage, is not rational. The just see your not going to the picnic as turning them down. Remember, it took a whole lot of guts and overcoming fear from their side to basically ask you out. Rejection no matter how justified it is, is never easy.I think the point is that it's stupid that you're getting penalised for doing what is obviously the right thing to do in that situation. Sage is ill and you've promised to take care of her. In real life, no one would blame you for staying home instead of going out to take care of a sick friend or family member, especially when you've already promised them you would stay home and do that. As such, the choice becomes pretty stupid, because there shouldn't be a downside to helping Sage, other than missing out on an opportunity to hang out with Jill.
(I know...asking someone out to a dance, but someone else already asked her, hurts)
The you also leaves out the part where the person you are looking after are another female. Some girls are Maybe ok with it, but most would not be. Especially if they don't know each other that well yet. She is still very insecure about your relationship, so anything happening like this, can just be seen from her side as "Fuck it! Why have I gone through all this shit and he turned me down to look after another girl. Fuck him, I guess he does not like me enough. booohooohooo "Real tears"...I really liked him... I'm heartbroken, but I guess it's time for me to move on."