Please take note that this is my very first five star rating. There are a lot of games I have reviewed that I love, but this is so far the only one that I can genuinely place this high.
Production value is huge. Character models and settings are fantastic. Animations are smooth and pretty. Gameplay is innovative. Story is extremely heavy. Replay value is ridiculous.
I originally didn't feel too much attraction to this one because of the name. "Being a DIK" sounded like a real cheap shot for a low brow adult visual novel. Still, the ratings were high and there were a number of chapters released already...
It turns out, this game is pretty damned "complete". Relationships are built around multiple variables and entire branches get closed off very early on in the game due to the complexity. This does not detract at all because it's something built in to the entire gameplay element. The only way to follow every story is to drastically change your gameplay which really makes this into a new game every time you come back.
The game also has <gasp> male characters that you can influence, and even <double gasp> like!
One of the few "cons" of this game is a particular moment where the MC is just a bit of a hypocrite over definitions... Sex at every turn is okay to him, but "relationship status" is a thing that makes some stuff taboo. This isn't a huge con, and the writer more than makes up for it by incorporating the funniest iteration of a minigame ever. The MC is childishly pouting and hurting a love interest by ignoring her while playing through a common minigame of reciting details about a non-interactive NPC's life, while that NPC is just sitting there feeling really uncomfortable...
Damn, the writing is hella good...
I am going to warn you about that writing though. I tried Dr PinkCake's other novel out, "Acting Lessons", and that novel broke my damn heart. If I'm honest, I don't even know if I dread or want that level of drama in this novel. Getting this emotionally invested is a blessing and a curse.
So yeah, the most surprising thing is the degree of emotional investment. Definitely not something expected of an adult visual novel, but probably the thing that actually warrants the fifth star.