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there is no prohibition of relationship between student and teacher if they are of age, at most it is inconvenient for the school (but since Cathe is transferring there is not even this problem anymore) , but also Bella is a teacher and will be a teacher of Mc next semester.It's not either or, it's both and.
Bella is trying to rationalize a way to pursue the MC. Pursuing him at the same time as Jill is already stretching Bella's rationalization to its limit. No surprise that adding yet another factor that would need to be rationalized (like Cathy) is enough to bring the whole thing crashing down. Once her rationalization is broken, Bella is able to definitively call things off with the MC.
Absent Cathy, Bella is finally willing to commit to pursuing the MC (as shown by her removing her ring at the end of the episode). She's still not able to come clean to Jill, though, because that has a host of other problems attached to it (the big ones are admitting to seeing the MC behind Jill's back and having to deal with the forbidden nature of their relationship). But the matter is obviously not resolved, and further complications might force Bella to take action again.
As for Cathy being unmarried, that's not really relevant: Cathy can't have a relationship with a student whether she's single or not.
Bella's own marriage only matters because of her personal hang-ups. If Bella really is willing to enter into a relationship with the MC, there's plenty of time between now and when the MC graduates (or Bella transfers) to end what's left of her marriage. (Given what we've seen, she could almost certainly have already divorced James if she had been so inclined).
In theory, the same could be true with Cathy, it's just that it's a ludicrously implausible path to attempt. Bella can recognize how implausible it is when she sees it objectively with Cathy in a way that she couldn't see when looking at it from her own point of view.
That's how I see it, at any rate.
How is the fact that Bella is married insignificant?
of course she can get divorced but that doesn't take away from the fact that for a married woman to have an extramarital affair is much more complicated than for a woman to have an affair with a "only" much younger guy.
It seems to me that Bella continues to follow her emotions, and that she doesn't rationalize much. Staying over at the DIKs is the least rational thing a teacher should do, competing with her best friend for a boyfriend is rational?
the emotions got Bella into a complicated situation, from my point of view almost with no way out, and Cathe gave her the chance to get out of it. Without Cathe, in fact, she sinks even further into this double relationship (possibly, not obligatory) from which all three will come out very badly.