In my youth I was a bit of a rapscallion, and I know of a few youthful ladies that made a point of visiting my abode strictly thanks to 'word of mouth' about certain things. It certainly had its benefits, but it wasn't earth-shattering. I can say of the lot of them there were a handful that I would say were absolute knockouts. To this day (decades later) most of that select few have retained their good looks. And only one of them isn't batshit crazy in some way. We're talking off the deep-end, conspiracy theory, anti-whatever, denialist nutjobs.
I can only really draw a few conclusions from this.
A: Bedding them drove them nuts in some manner. Unlikely, I was good, but not good enough to shatter the mind.
B: I have a knack for picking them, and violated rule 1 far too many times (don't stick your dick in crazy)
C: Most women are crazy anyway, you may as well aim high?
Puns aside, it had its ups and downs. Waking up most days of the school year with somebody warming my bed? Awesome. Having stories spread? Not quite as awesome. There really was a point where I suspected I was just being treated like a toy that a few of them were passing around, and despite the raw physical fun, not any real significant emotional connection with many of them.
There were a few, though, and that bond is still largely there today. And I'm quite pleased they are married to other people.
So, am I like "this" too? Not these days, but at one point, yeah, I kinda was. Thankfully, I never ran into anything worse than an Arieth situation once, and I've certainly made some Very Bad Decisions. I consider myself lucky. That's also why I enjoy some of these games as I do, because it's a bit of nostalgia without (usually) being too ridiculous. In BaDIK, MC definitely needs to pull his head out of his ass. He and Jill both have a significant case of the stupids going on.