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I have to strongly disagree FWIW. Someone's history before you even knew them does NOT fit any variant definition of "NTR". See my above post for brief reasoning. I reckon most folks really need to (at a minimum) gooooogle "NTR" to understand WTF it really is tbh. Again, this is not directed to you personally but rather the whole mindset dumpster fire that has become "any bitch that has ever fucked anything before me is NTR because she might be an LI at some point" nonsense. It's rather stupid imho, to the point of almost being Snowflake. (I'm not calling you a snowflake, but rather the mindset)True but people see it as one or the other most of the time. If you aren't on her path and actively pursuing her then it's not NTR but I think the only way that would work is if there are two outcomes for the "LIs". One where if you are on her path, it doesn't happen, and another for if you aren't and it does. Otherwise it is NTR as many see it.