JeSinclair
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You do not ask a simple question, but a rather nuanced one that is dependent on subjective vs objective.EDIT: This question is only for people who: 1) are turned on by some or all of the items listed, and 2) are willing and able to articulate why they're turned on by these things.
Respectful question for the countless ardent fans of this incredibly popular game, including DrPinkCake himself. This is not an attempt to troll or offend. I simply have personal tastes that differ, and I'm curious if any of you can explain your tastes to me so that I may understand. I'm very much into "girl next door" types, or simple, authentic, cute, natural, fresh-faced, unadorned females--basically the opposite of everyone in this game, as far as I can tell.
What do you find appealing about:
* extremely heavy makeup that gives an unnatural look and obscures the face underneath
* painted-on eyebrows
* long fake fingernails with unnatural colors
* fake eyelashes
* facial piercings
* heavy tattooing
* unnaturally colored hair
* half-shaved heads
* bone structure that gives a severe, unfriendly look
* general vibes of jadedness, deadness, inauthenticity, severity, unnaturalness, invulnerability, and a sort of relative soullessness (as opposed to an innocent, full, fresh, present, lively, and whole-some energetic)
Some of those observations are objective and some are obviously subjective, but I'm just trying to articulate as best I can what I'm noticing and what I'm trying to understand. Thank you.
I too care more for the 'girl next door' look, but that does not mean any mix or all of the above attributes are unattractive. The question lends itself more to the old adage of "beauty is in the eye of the beholder."
While I can say what I find attractive, that does not negate what another thinks/feels of the same subject.
That being said, the best answer I can give is the following:
All of the above are illustrations of the world we live in where individuals (either male or female) attempt to 'project' a certain look of themselves to the outside world, but that is only one side of the coin.
That projected image, still must be 'perceived' by the rest of the outside world.
Thus while what one projects still must be perceived, and there is not always a correlation between the two.
I am attempting to give a nuanced answers to the same type of question. If you are looking for something more specific, with specific reasoning, then it would be in your best interest to ask a more specific question that allows for more specific details to the rationale.
And you might want to recall the old adage:
"You can attract more flies with honey, than with vinegar." - Being passive/aggressive with those taking the time to respond to you will not help get you the answers you are stating that you seek.