On the first point, I do think there are porn games are somewhat progressive, but I also don't expect such things from these games. However, thinking on from this context, I think one of the reasons I personally find BaD so confusing is that I don't really know what the game wants to be or say, unlike with a lot of other games where it is easier to parse out. Because of that, I think it also allows more room for different interpretations as you can draw these examples that seem contrast each other at which point it becomes which one do you give more weight to. And this isn't to argue that my view is more correct, even if I do defend it, but rather I do get why there are diverging views.