WolfmanBR
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- Jun 30, 2024
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I find it curious, to say the least, the idea that if someone cheated during a relationship, that person will necessarily do it again and that is why they are not desirable relationship material. Let's be at least a little mature: everyone has cheated or been cheated on; and if someone says they never been cheated, it's simply because you never knew.
I've been on both sides of the coin and most of the time all I've gotten is regret, hurt and sadness. The big question is: are you able to learn from this and not do to other people what you wouldn't want done to you?
That said, I think Tara's storyline points to the fact that she is learning from her mistakes, given all the chaos that followed the issue of the leaked photos. She has already taken the first steps towards that.
I've always been very honest with my girlfriends about all the shit I've done in other relationships due to my lack of emotional maturity and I would be a huge hypocrite to discard possible relationship with any girl just because she cheated on her previous boyfriend.
Of course, during the period of relationship consolidation, several other factors, perhaps much more important, can come together to signal that investing in that person is not worth it. What path DPC will choose for Tara, remains to be seen.
I've been on both sides of the coin and most of the time all I've gotten is regret, hurt and sadness. The big question is: are you able to learn from this and not do to other people what you wouldn't want done to you?
That said, I think Tara's storyline points to the fact that she is learning from her mistakes, given all the chaos that followed the issue of the leaked photos. She has already taken the first steps towards that.
I've always been very honest with my girlfriends about all the shit I've done in other relationships due to my lack of emotional maturity and I would be a huge hypocrite to discard possible relationship with any girl just because she cheated on her previous boyfriend.
Of course, during the period of relationship consolidation, several other factors, perhaps much more important, can come together to signal that investing in that person is not worth it. What path DPC will choose for Tara, remains to be seen.