OK. I knew I've seen it somewhere

It seems the lines were correct, but I remembered the wrong scene. Thanks Vega!!
So, back to this line, this is why I don't think the reason Bella and her husband separated lies with her.
I am a supporter of the theory that Bella's husband cheated on her. I remember in Ep6, after Bella helped MC clean his room, during their night rest, her inner monologue went something like, ‘This is adultery, I've become the kind of woman I despise.’
There seems to be something to forgive on both sides.
My thought:
- Bella and James had a child that died. Could be a miscarriage or as an infant (SIDS).
- Bella met Jill her (Jill's) freshman year and bonded over their shared grief.
- James had some job where he was out of town a lot and Bella was mostly left to deal with the grief on her own.
- Jill was over at Bella's one time and they had some wine. They were in Bella's bed (the only bedroom) settling in to sleep and talking and getting emotional.
- Jill made the move on Bella, but Bella responded. They aren't bi but their emotions and pain were strong and they wanted some physical comfort. (No way to know how far they went, but I suspect it wasn't full sex or anything like that.)
- James caught them. <-- this explains why Bella is thinking that she needs forgiveness from James.
- The dead child grief plus now Bella apparently cheating on him were too much and he abandoned Bella. Refused to talk or try to work on things. <-- this explains where Bella says he could come back and that she forgives him.
- He's now been gone for 3ish years. (Bella said she hadn't been touched in 3 years.)
- She still wears the ring and considers herself married because they never divorced and she carries a ton of guilt for how the relationship was broken.
- The MC connected with her emotionally and she is finally starting to accept that her marriage is truly dead and she can move on and pursue her own happiness.
The Bella/MC relationship is the one main girl relationship that I feel has a legitimate ticking bomb in it.
James is very likely to be coming back at some point.
I don't think DPC would do it, but it certainly wouldn't surprise me if Bella and the MC's relationship would not survive that.