NewGuy2022
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Right. For open relationships to work, they require communication, trust, and respect. This includes explaining the boundaries (if any) and following them.Well with me the Heather appreciation happened a lot faster. The first impression was a stuck up bitch who wouldn't talk to maggots. Then she was shown to have a temper and while it wasn't okay for her to take it out on MC my judgement of her was put on hold until I figured out why she was angry. Then it was all Tommy's fault. Then it was even more Tommy's fault. Then she explained that they were supposed ask permission before fucking someone else and I concluded that Tommy is a cheating asshole and Heather deserves better.
But it did offer an interesting mental exercise in how you could still be a cheater in an open relationship. I was sure that Heather was being wronged because Tommy was clearly breaking the rule they set up, but putting it to words was challenging. I got a satisfying explanation when I looked at it from the angle that cheating is literally the same as breaking a rule and it applies to all relationships. In a conventional relationship having sex with someone else is cheating because there is a rule that you aren't allowed to do that. An open relationship does allow sex with other people but there can still be rules about it and breaking them makes someone just as much a cheater as it does in a conventional relationship. Heather and Tommy had a rule and Tommy broke it so he is a cheater.
I'd like to see the characters tackle that exercise especially if it was MC and Heather, but I don't see a way they could have sex without breaking the brotherhood's bonds. So while I still want that scene I don't think there is a happy ending with Heather.
Heather communicated her boundaries to Tommy and trusted him to follow them. The boundaries are pretty simple but Tommy didn't care enough to follow them. Tommy broke the trust when he did this; he actually cheated on a kitchen pass. I mean, how much of a loser must you be to screw up a relationship that's this open? Somehow Tommy did it...